I think about this guy everyday...

[jhsjsams719]

So before I was clarified with my sexuality (bisexual), this other bisexual guy was obsessed with me. Liked me deeply.
But I cut him off, and stopped talking to him because I was scared and denying the fact that I was also bisexual. (It was wrong of me to do that, but not the point.)

But now I'm clarified, and I talked to him and said sorry. We're friends now and he seems to be over me. He had a boyfriend when I started talking to him again, but broke up with that boyfriend recently.

Skipping a few steps, him and I are currently "friends with benefits." Everytime we meet up and we're alone together in a room, we have a session. (Not all the way though, just making out and oral.) I'm actually starting to feel like I want to gradually stop the making out for benefits. But we're still good friends, and we talk and laugh like good friends.

But for some odd reason, I think about him everyday. I feel like I want to see him everyday, talk to him everyday, and just be with him. I don't think it's mainly for the lust. Maybe I'm into him...?

I don't know what to tell him... I'm the one who turned him down in the first place...which was like months ago. I wonder how he would react now if I told him that I was into him?

But first of all, I'm not sure if I'm into him or not... What do you guys think this is? Help, please. :(

[Pipo]

hmmm...

well sounds like you've crush on this boy and I'd say you've some feelings for him if you think about him everday and such those are clear signs for a crush and maybe you want him to be your boyfriend?

But you also told you've had some oral fun and kissing with him...as "friends" sounds like that is turning into feelings towards him ^^

no body can tell are you into him or not it's up to you really. I'd say ask him what he thinks about you and maybe cut down the oral/kissing and see if you like him as person or is it just liking him as friends with "benefits."

:)

[Fariko Draw]

Well first of all, look into your heart, and ask yourself deep down do you love him, and do you love him enough that you want to be with him? If the answer is yes to the both of them, then yh you are into him. As for telling him, start by talking to him, finding out if he still has feelings for you , if he doesnt and you were to tell him you do now, it could mess up the whole friendship, once you know if he does still have feelings for you or not, then tell him that you do, you could probably end up wanting the same thing. Anyway good luck mate :)

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

Well first off I'm going to be honest and for cutting him off I say shame on you. You should have just told him how u felt and since he has come back to u I'm sure he'll be accepting. Anyway, since u 2 are as u say friends with benefits I'd say he still likes you. So I'd say go for it and if u are lucky enough for him to accept u I'd count ur blessings mate cos u got a keeper there :)

[jhsjsams719]

Ok, so I told him that I'm crushing on him...but he said he can't see me for a while...he can't see me eye to eye at the moment.

Ugh...I feel like I ruined it :(