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Xandle
May 19th, 2012, 09:27 AM
I'm 16, and am still quite curious about guys. All I've done as jacked off beside one of my friends quite a few times at sleepovers. I was wondering what age people tend to stop being curious? The thought of guys still turns me on, so can anyone enlighten me?
Thanks.

ddbumblebee
May 19th, 2012, 09:38 AM
I'll be really honest with you man; when I was 10 I got my first bj ever off a friend;it was a guy. When I started high school when I was 13 I was really curious about guys too; actually to the point that I came to the conclusion that I was bi...but later I seemed to have this huge swing in sexual interests; now I am officially str8...you can never know for certain though. Anyway; what I basically wanted to gete across is that you might have a sudden swinv in interests like I did...or you might not.
Really though it doesn't matter; just your preference; don't let anyone get you down about it.

riotroger
May 19th, 2012, 09:42 AM
I'm 18 and well... I always thought I was straight curious, but after experimenting with a guy a couple times I came to the conclusion I'm bi.

But aside from that I've also j/o beside my best friend at sleepovers frequently, but it never turned into anything more (cause I have no desire to do anything more with any of my guy friends). It doesn't sound like you're anything more than curious, though I do strongly believe that guys who are curious will never know for certain if they truly like guys unless they experiment at least once.

Anyway, I don't think I'm ever going to stop thinking about guys that way (cause I'm just as attracted to them as girls) but from what I've read and heard the curiosity usually lasts for awhile, but decreases significantly after you're done going through puberty, and puberty doesn't really stop until 20-22. So you still have several years to go I think, and just take it in stride, its not a big deal :D

Bojan
May 19th, 2012, 09:46 AM
U might lose ur interest or u might not there is no way to tell what will happen with u

ImCoolBeans
May 19th, 2012, 09:55 AM
Curiosity either fizzles out and you lose the slight attraction for guys or you begin to realize that you are a) bisexual or b) you're gay. For me, within the last year, I came to the conclusion that I was not curious or bisexual, but in fact I am gay. It's not like that for everyone, but you'll figure it all out in time.

Sean4U
July 6th, 2012, 12:14 PM
Curiosity either fizzles out and you lose the slight attraction for guys or you begin to realize that you are a) bisexual or b) you're gay. For me, within the last year, I came to the conclusion that I was not curious or bisexual, but in fact I am gay. It's not like that for everyone, but you'll figure it all out in time.

I see why Beans is a moderator now, always gives a good advise and good answer....you may never loose that curiosity ...OR once you've aced on it you might....I know that since I came out my dad told me he was curious when he was a kid ...when i asked him if he still was he sort of just shut up...so maybe that curiosity never leaves....only as you get older will you know i guess

sms22
July 6th, 2012, 12:20 PM
Well it depends because not eveyones the same but one day you sholud be able to know. Im 15 and im curious. Trust me one day youll know and dont worry about it. Enjoy being a teenager!

nicetomeetyou
July 6th, 2012, 12:42 PM
Sometimes it fizzles out after your teen years. However, i know a lot of older guys who are still curious, but identify as straight! Its just in some peoples nature to be like that forever I suppose! :)

joshduder
July 6th, 2012, 01:45 PM
Depends on your hormones and psyche

IAMWILL
July 6th, 2012, 02:00 PM
For me, Its starting to die down. When I was 13-14 I was super curious and wanted to do all that stuff with a guy friend for fun, but now I just don't really want to anymore. I've always liked girls more and I know I'm straight, but I still wouldn't mind comparing with a friend or talking about stuff, just nothing more than that.