So there's this guy!

[DevinDJR]

Hey every one so there is this guy at school and I really like him he's gay and I'm bi so I really like him I'm a sophomore and he's a freshman and he's really hot! So anyway today at break we talked for the first time without a messenger relaying messages to each other so I had this girl tell him I like him and he told her to tell me he likes me too! So anyway we talked today for the first time and we talked it wasn't awkward I was just so nervous so the conversation was short but he felt the same way to the messenger so at 7th period we where talking and I asked if he wanted to walk home together since he lives about 2 miles before my house so we where walking and he was telling me about this senior who he dated who he broke up with and this senior btw also tried to date me before him but I said no so anyway he told me a bunch of stuff about him so anyway when we got to the section where we going to split and go our different ways he told me that He blew him I was like ok..... So anyway I'm still attracted to him and he looked sad when I didn't hug or kiss him goodbye but today is our first day together talking so I didn't know what To do so any advice? This might not be the right section but I hope i'll get some good advice


Thanks so much,
Devin

[Short Circuit]

A hug is always a good way to start, then holding hands, then just go with the flow

[DevinDJR]

But I'm not out at school so we can't hold hands at school or really in public I will hug him and at lunch the baseball fields are empty so maybe one day we can go back there and kiss cause I thought that would be kinda hot to kiss on homeplate

[Short Circuit]

there are loads of places in school you can find for the hugs and kisses, but yeah, get your point about holding hands

[DevinDJR]

Yah the holding hands thing I don't think he does but I can't talk to him this weekend and I don't get to see him tell Tuesday cause he's on a drama class trip to the shakespeire festival... So Im like gonna be thinking of him all week and yah I just felt like I left him hanging and all day today after we talked the first time at break I felt like he didn't like me anymore but I told him and he was like awe no why would u think that lol

but yah I thought it would be pretty hot to kiss him at home plate just me and him

[Bojan]

I think u should start with hugging him but if what u want to kiss him then u should go for it u have nothing to lose and everything to gain

[riotroger]

He dated a blew a senior?!? Geez popular kid... (jk lol). Just a quick question, is he out yet?

Anyways... that's cute, but yeah I would have hugged him when you guys were splitting off to go your separate ways. You don't want to send him mixed signals, and that is MUCH more likely to happen to teens in high school with hormones running rampant. Not to mention you're in the closet and just bi while he's completely gay, and he's the younger one.

Maybe to make up for it hug him when you guys meet up again? As for the kissing bit definitely wait till you're both alone and go for it :D.

[ImCoolBeans]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[DevinDJR]

I'm meN to most people they already figure I was gay and it's worst cause I'm on the wrestling team and soccer team but most people already think I'm gay so it's not that much of a secret but alot of my friends know.... Also is it a good sign that when I asked about what happened between him and the senior he told me the truth????

An is it normal to feel like they don't like u anymore after u talk to them the first time I kept thinking I screwed up and now he doesn't like me becaus I was nervous...

[Bobby08]

Hmm I would just hug him, and then he may possibly want to make out, just ask him about it!!!!

[DevinDJR]

Yah he's out he said he would tell me later how his parents found out he said it was by accident so I asked to lunch on Tuesday cause that's the day freshman and upperclassman have the same lunch and maybe Wednesday too if he wants so yah I really like him and I can't wait tell Tuesday so yah I'll def hug him

[Joshy1305]

So.Much.Reading o.o

[Joshy1305]

We should call dr.phil<3

[DevinDJR]

Ok nvm u don't have to post anything and it's not anything drphil would be needed for u bafoon -_- that's what a forum is reading *neck*

[unnamed94]

try to walk with him to his house another day and go for it then, when you are alone

[Cameron14]

Good Luck. Just enjoy the moment. No need to rush

[hhhhyi]

Best of luck. c:

[Skyhawk]

See, this is how a good relationship starts. Everything just happens...naturally.

:)