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Short Circuit
May 19th, 2012, 12:57 AM
How long was you in denial before you accepted your sexuality?

darkie
May 19th, 2012, 01:25 AM
Hmm, maybe a good year or so. :)

CrossingtheCourtyard
May 19th, 2012, 03:24 AM
Four or five years? Maybe more.

jjsmitty
May 19th, 2012, 03:53 AM
Probably about a year or so, would have been longer if I hadn't been forced to come out.

PerpetualMotionSquad
May 19th, 2012, 04:22 AM
Hmm hard question. I'd say from about 11 or 12 I was having sexual feelings for guys but I thought that was normal because all my friends were like mucking around saying they wanna hump me and stuff. As I turned 13 I realised they were getting deeper and deeper so I accepted I was bi. At 14 however I realised girls were turning me off more and more and I did not watch straight porn no more it was all gay. I then had the vision of me spending my life with a boy and us adopting a kid and stuff so yeah I think at 14 I finally accepted my sexuality. Hope I helped!

Midland
May 19th, 2012, 06:22 AM
4 - 5 Weeks after I first started thinking about it. However, I always thought that my lack of interest in girls was because I hadn't hit puberty and that my interest in guys was normal for my age.

OregonStateDude
May 19th, 2012, 08:27 AM
I never really was in denial. Once I figured out that I was gay, I told myself that I wasn't going to be a stereotype. I never had suicidal thoughts or wanted to cut myself with a razor blade. Being gay is just a small part of who I am; I don't let it define my entire life.

It helps that I am only out to one person, so I don't get bullied or anything like that.

Wonder.
May 19th, 2012, 10:39 AM
I was in a half-denial stage, I always said I was bisexual even though I knew I was gay. I even said I was bi on this website. That lasted for less than a year, but I never tried to "force the gay out" or anything. I already got mean comments about the way I dressed, so homosexuality wasn't too hard to overcome.

Lovemeorleaveme
May 20th, 2012, 08:54 PM
I think for a minimum of 8 1/2 months that i rly think i was in full on denial that was from the beginning of grade seven to a couple of weeks ago

RoseyCadaver
May 20th, 2012, 08:57 PM
Four years baby. About 15 denying my gender.

Abyssal Echo
May 20th, 2012, 08:58 PM
Hmm, maybe a good year or so. :)

about the same here :)

Jupiter
May 20th, 2012, 10:18 PM
Well, I believe you are born what you are, but I didn't really know about other sexualities or realize I was until about 2 or three years ago.

Electra Heart
May 20th, 2012, 11:27 PM
Oh LOOOOONG time bro, did some shit I ain't proud of.