lonely

[GMFreightTrain]

I have very little confidence and I feel like I have no chance of getting a girlfreind. I have been bullied since 3rd grade (sophomore now) and no girl is atracted to me. I'm really getting lonely and have considered multiple... permenant solutions to my problems. Help?

[LETSGOJETS]

I get your point here are some pointers. Get yourself out there. Make friends with more people. If your good at sports try onto get to the high school sports team. Most people get girls if they play on sports teams or something like that. Well maybe change your appearance or what you think about. If your bullied for what you think change what you think. Well try later. Good Luck!

[Lovemeorleaveme]

I get your point here are some pointers. Get yourself out there. Make friends with more people. If your good at sports try onto get to the high school sports team. Most people get girls if they play on sports teams or something like that. Well maybe change your appearance or what you think about. If your bullied for what you think change what you think. Well try later. Good Luck!

i disagree with some of this girls dont like it when guys pretend to be somthing their not, just be yourself. i can connect with you on the bullying thing. if you want to talk you can pm me im not gonna be like most people and say that all you have to do is ignore it i know its not as easy as that but there are ways of dealing with it.

[Jmihas]

I get what your thinking about but things happen, time will solve bits by bits like you will may have a girlfriend at college or high school any sooner. Be confidence! Don't be hard on yourself.

[Alexander The Great]

I've never been much of a looker, but I'm always nice to everyone. I'm in my 4th year at secondary school (14/15 year olds), and I got bullied all 3 years before then. However, in pure coincidence to meeting this girl who was sat next to me in geography class, talking to her really boosted my confidence, and so I become more 'me' by slowly talking to others. Pretty much everyone in my classes like me now, and I even get along with the ex bullies. I don't actually have many friends, but people are more willing to get to know me, and recently for the first time ever, a girl actually wanted to get to know me (which was a false lead because 4 days later show got a boyfriend who she tried for ever to get), but I'm glad I met all my friends to be honest :D and you never know - stuff can literally change over 1 day (which it did for me)

[darkie]

Just be yourself and it'll be okay. Don't make 'having a girlfriend' a huge priority, just because everyone has doesn't mean you should. :) A little confidence in yourself helps too.

[Aves]

One piece of advice I can give is to not obsess over the fact. Live your life and have fun. I know it's not me telling you how to get a girlfriend, but it's better than constantly worrying that you'll be alone. If you can live a happy life, maybe you won't even need a girlfriend to keep you happy. Or maybe by living your life and being you, someone will find interest in you.

Oh, and as for those bullies; don't let them know that you're hurt by their words. If they know they're hurting/bothering you, it might make them want to do it more. If they get to an outlandish point though, go to your counselor or a teacher.

[HEN_iP]

Exactly what Gunter said! You definitely do have to put yourself out there to meet new people for even the opportunity for a girl to come along but don't worry about finding 'her' right away. Find your interests and hobbies and just enjoy life :)

[commikid]

Dont worry about it man, I have left school now and have also finished further education and have never had a girlfriend, I am too picky which people say I shouldnt be but at the end of the day I would never go out with someone that I would feel the need to cheat on or that I wasn't 100% sure about and I just cant seem to find that person that likes me back haha. Dont feel lonely or upset over the matter, things will come together in the end man :D And as for being shy around girls some girls will like that after all I like quiet girls so dont try and change pal just go with the flow and something good will come along one day.. I always beleave in the saying "the best things come to those who wait" :') I've been lonely and all that and its not worth even going there pal :')

I've never been much of a looker, but I'm always nice to everyone. I'm in my 4th year at secondary school (14/15 year olds), and I got bullied all 3 years before then. However, in pure coincidence to meeting this girl who was sat next to me in geography class, talking to her really boosted my confidence, and so I become more 'me' by slowly talking to others. Pretty much everyone in my classes like me now, and I even get along with the ex bullies. I don't actually have many friends, but people are more willing to get to know me, and recently for the first time ever, a girl actually wanted to get to know me (which was a false lead because 4 days later show got a boyfriend who she tried for ever to get), but I'm glad I met all my friends to be honest :D and you never know - stuff can literally change over 1 day (which it did for me)

That sounds quite a bit like me to be honest man :L things did just change round in a day but you have to also come to terms with the fact that you are who you are and your happy with that. dont try and become someone your not :D thats kinda ho I realised any how :D