should i have sex now

[masta g]

Ok I'm only 14 and my gf keeps on grabbing me which us telling me a preaty good sign that she wants to have sex but I don't now how to get condums and it seems her parents don't care cause(Victoria) my gf keeps grabing my dick infront of them any advise

[darkie]

Ask her straight to the point if that's what she wants. Never assume stuff. To be honest, I think that's too young to have sex, because both of you may be physically ready, and you *might* think you are ready mentally and emotionally, chances are, you're not. Also, since you mentioned that you don't know how to get condoms/contraception, it's reaaally risky to have unprotected sex at such a young age, and the possible responsibilities that would follow. Just ask her about that and if you feel that you aren't ready, then tell her so. :)

If you do decide on doing so, then be sure to use protection and make sure that you're 110% ready, and be sure that you're ready with the consequences and be able to face up to the responsibility that might rise, and to make sure that you won't regret this decision many years down the road.

[masta g]

Thnx

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

Personally I find fourteen to be really, really freaking young to have sex.

If you do decide to have sex together, review the basic procedures for avoiding pregnancy--using condom/the pill and whatnot.

[karl]

I think that if you don't know if you should then the answer must be that you shouldn't.

[Short Circuit]

Just because you have a dick, doesnt mean you have to use it. Take it from someone who had sex way too young, there are other things that you can do to each other, besides sex. If you dont know what that is, google it.

I am sorry if this sounds blunt, but please, dont just do it for the sake of it, you WILL regret it

[XxAssasiNxX]

FUCK!!what is wrong with teens and kids trying to grow up so fast!!fuckin 8 year olds striiping and smoking and ur only 14 and ur gf wants to have sex....enjoy ur god damm childhood and ur teenager life having fun and doing normal things. kids keep on taking on things they cant handle at this age. at 14 its just not right and at least wait until ur ready. tell your girlfreind straight up that we are both to young for this and were just teens. not adults. were supposed to have fun not hqve sex and do drugs and stuff. do u get what im saying!

[Breakeven]

FUCK!!what is wrong with teens and kids trying to grow up so fast!!fuckin 8 year olds striiping and smoking and ur only 14 and ur gf wants to have sex....enjoy ur god damm childhood and ur teenager life having fun and doing normal things. kids keep on taking on things they cant handle at this age. at 14 its just not right and at least wait until ur ready. tell your girlfreind straight up that we are both to young for this and were just teens. not adults. were supposed to have fun not hqve sex and do drugs and stuff. do u get what im saying!
^^ agreed :) enjoy ur childhood ur not ready

[ExhibitG]

i agree with the people saying it's too young. also, just because she grabs you doesn't mean she wants to have sex lol...