Girl likes me, but I don't like girls

[TheHumanSpirit]

Some of my friends told me that this girl I know is crushing on me. One problem: I'm gay and haven't told too many people because of extenuating circumstances (guy I like is in denial, parents, etc.). Anyways, I talked to my other friends and they said she's a total stalker girlfriend and when her last boyfriend broke up with her, she kept coming to school drunk every day and she had a miscarriage because of all of the drinking. So, I'm not even down to have some fun with this...plus, that would seem mean. I don't like stringing people along.

What should I do? I don't trust her enough to tell her I'm gay, and I already told our mutual friends that I'd think about it.

[Lovemeorleaveme]

say you dont want to date her cause of the way she delt with breaking up with hef ex

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

say you dont want to date her cause of the way she delt with breaking up with hef ex

Or (because that's a little rude) say you just aren't intrested.

[ImCoolBeans]

Or (because that's a little rude) say you just aren't intrested.

I don't really find that to be so rude, there isn't really much to say about it, if you aren't interested you just simply are not into it. Don't force yourself to do anything you don't want to do or tell anybody something you're not comfortable with. I'm gay (not fully out) and girls still like me, I just don't show the interest back.

[Breakeven]

Tell her ur not looking for gf n try not to give her face

[jjsmitty]

Just say that you aren't ready for a relationship yet, you don't have to come out if you don't feel comfortable. Tell her you aren't interested (Obviously in a nicer way than that) :D

[Short Circuit]

Just say that your not ready for a relationship and your concentrating on your grades/studies or some BS like that

[TheHumanSpirit]

Sounds good. Thanks everyone!

[OregonStateDude]

I'm going through almost the same thing; there's this girl in my math class who touches my arm when I wear a short sleeve shirt, puts her hand on my shoulder, that kind of junk. Justin razzes me and says I have a GF now.

Just say that your not ready for a relationship and your concentrating on your grades/studies or some BS like that

Part of me wants to tell her that, but I would be basically outing myself if I did that. So I just let it happen; it's not like I am leading her on or anything. I figure by the time we get to high school she will get bored and move on to some other guy.