CoolKid97
May 16th, 2012, 10:10 PM
I split up on Monday after 4 years with my girlfriend. It was a hard decision but the best decision in the end. Im moving this summer and since the beginning of high school (this year) we never saw each other. We talked of course but we just seemed like we were running out of things to talk about and interested in new things. When I told her she handled it well. Whats funny is we were called "the cutest couple" but no one has come to me asking me questions about this. Im not even sure if a lot of people even know about this. Anyways we would trade Yugioh cards on the bus and sit together in elementary school. If she didn't have snow pants I would keep her company even If I had them. We traded Pokemon, which to this day I still have hers. I would call her a lot back then. I would sometimes see her at the beach. Then we enter 6th grade were we asked each other out at the dance. It's a funny story about the dance. We both got painted mustaches and we both washed them off. Then we got to the dance floor and slow danced. We ate lunch together and walked home together. In 7th grade we did the same thing except she never went to dances. What was horrible was that the first dance was on my birthday and she never went. I never went to any of the dances after that. In 8th grade we would make jokes and laugh so hard our friends would get mad at us. There were a few friends that were jealous and wanted it to end. I started going to dances again in 8th grade and slow danced with a girl. I would skip drama lessons till one friend that I have to assume was jealous with my GF and I and since I was also taking his ex to the dances told the drama teacher. That led to a phone call home and I couldn't skip to make sure she got home. Later on he was always telling me to break up with her and he seems happy that I did (I didn't break up because he wanted me to, I did for my GF and I's best interest). I went to a very boring band concert just for her. I spent every Friday with her at her house or my house. We went shopping together and watched movies and ate pizza at my house. I remember one time I chugged a soda in front of her just to see her reaction. Near the end of the year we had a huge dance with both middle schools. She refused to go and teachers called home (thanks to my request and them wanting her to have fun) and even offered to get her a dress. I ended up bringing the girl that I did to previous dances and that was actually a fun night! We had a end of the year field trip and she didn't even go to that (again the teachers and I begged her to go) and she didn't. This year she has lied to me a lot about some stuff and has ditched me last minute at lots of events. I do what she wants, but she doesn't do what I want. So a few days ago I split up... At first I was happy because I had a freedom of looking at girls and do what I want... Then I started getting more sad and mad at myself... So what does everyone think? Did I do the right thing? Did I do anything wrong? Whats your opinion...