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blackpo
May 16th, 2012, 09:09 PM
Okay so I have this friend in my 2nd and 3rd block (I'm in high school and we only have 4 1-1/2 hr classes) and I see him a lot and I think I that for some reason I subconsciously like him. For a while I have talked to him and I know he is straight and that he has a girlfriend. ugh... And i have been poking tickling and untying his shoe strings... I don't know but I want to get over it and hopefully not let any one see this as flirting... :( what should i do

BTW everyone in the classes that I have him with know that I am not straight

JamHaychUK
May 17th, 2012, 07:38 AM
We've all been in that situation - well, a surprising number of us can relate: liking someone who isn't available.

Does *he* know you're not straight? If he's a good and trusted friend, you could try taking him aside and telling him how you feel. Even though he's straight, if he's that kind of friend he'll understand and help you with it.

Otherwise, there's not much I think you can do. :( You could ignore it and eventually get over him, or distance yourself from him at the cost of potentially damaging your friendship.

PerpetualMotionSquad
May 17th, 2012, 08:56 AM
I have the same problem mate. When I am in some classes, this guy I just can't stop staring at him. We do lots of activities together and we are pretty close. He is so nice looking I just can't get his looks out of my head. I just try not to think about him in that way and of us just as friends. I know it's hard but it isn't worth ruining your friendship. Hope I helped.

blackpo
May 17th, 2012, 07:51 PM
he knows that I am not straight