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Jmurphy97
May 15th, 2012, 09:26 PM
Next year I am going to HS and we have mandatory showers. I am worried I will get a boner and get made fun of. How can I prevent a boner and way to make one go a way if I get one. Please don't put mean answers

Bobby08
May 15th, 2012, 09:36 PM
Don't worry about you will all get boners, and most likely compare sizes and might even explore alittle bit good luck!!!!

Adam Glambert
May 15th, 2012, 09:37 PM
Well you can try to hurt yourself. That always works for me, I don't know about you. I'm gay but when I do get a boner that's what I do. But I have a boyfriend so I don't notice other guys.

SwaggaKid
May 15th, 2012, 09:37 PM
Its okay, I'd be scared about that too. Maybe try thinking about something really gross or picture someone masturbating with a wrinkly old infected penis. Should work. :) haha. Good luck! Oh,and I'm sure all the guys are scared of the same thing too

YOUNGFLYGUY
May 15th, 2012, 10:31 PM
Everyone will..and u might explore

riotroger
May 15th, 2012, 11:15 PM
I honestly wouldn't worry about it. Most guys your age get random boners in the shower, it happens. Not really sure what other advice to give, but if you feel yourself starting to get a boner try thinking of something really unpleasant that turns you off... that might help?

Good luck!

Giles
May 16th, 2012, 09:02 AM
Don't worry about you will all get boners, and most likely compare sizes and might even explore alittle bit good luck!!!!

Everyone will..and u might explore

In your dreams maybe. Unless I'm seriously misjudging every other country I don't think there's even the most remote chance of anything like this happening.

Well you can try to hurt yourself. That always works for me, I don't know about you. I'm gay but when I do get a boner that's what I do. But I have a boyfriend so I don't notice other guys.

That is just utter bollocks, I'm sorry. I don't care if you've been married to the guy for 60 years, if there's a 30+ teenagers waving their cocks around near you then you're going to look.

OP: Chances are that absolutely everyone in there will feel exactly the same as you, worried about getting an erection, worried about how big they are, worried about pubes, etc. The worst thing you can do is worry about it too much, the more you're thinking about your penis the more likely it is that you're going to get an erection - think about it; you get an erection because of being sexually aroused, think about a penis and you're more likely to feel that way. The best thing that you can do to prevent them, although nothing really will, is to just be as relaxed as possible - try talking to a friend all the time so that your mind is somewhere else, if all else fails and you feel like you're getting an erection then just try to get out as quickly as possible and concentrate on something that you know will get rid of it. I used to think about maths problems, might seem strange but it worked for me.

Zydeco
May 16th, 2012, 10:30 PM
I think, to a degree, getting aroused in that sort of situation is inevitable. Just deal with it as best you can.

Jshack43
May 16th, 2012, 11:07 PM
💩 yeah ts like that for us to but nobody really looks around youll be fine

Luke91
May 17th, 2012, 07:51 PM
I suggest the first day you go in, get naked and take your shower acting like it does not bother you. Actually everyone is a little nervous at first. If you do pop a boner, just face the wall and finish your shower. Then get out, dry off and put your underwear on. All boys fear getting a boner but remember and all boys have the same parts and actually it does not happen often. The biggest thing is be one of the first to get naked so the others will not think you are scared. It all gets easier each day. After about 3 days you will be more at ease and will start having fun.

VirtualGuy012
May 17th, 2012, 11:48 PM
clothes your eyes, don't look at anyone, or think about it

ddbumblebee
May 18th, 2012, 12:17 AM
there will probably be other people that do that too:) Don't stress I doubt you'd be the only one.

felixfelicis
May 18th, 2012, 12:18 AM
If I don't want to get a boner somewhere, I jerk off right before. Maybe beat one off in the washroom before hand, and you won't be horned?

Or think unappealing things.

Concentrate on something really hard. like song lyrics, or try and memorize a rap. and don't let your mind wander.

Rubbish
May 19th, 2012, 03:09 AM
its boner city

theguy58397
May 19th, 2012, 03:07 PM
im always worried about that, i just try to think of something else. the fear of being spotted with one helps to not have one

Sean4U
July 6th, 2012, 12:16 PM
don't stress on it...you more than likely will but if you look around you probably won't be the only one....it happens to us all..

sms22
July 6th, 2012, 12:23 PM
Alot of kids in the locker room get boners and if you're still embarassed think about your grandparents or a really big turn off for you. Good luck man!

Sph2015
July 6th, 2012, 12:26 PM
At my school it's a very relaxed environment. Don't stress about that stuff, just focus on relaxing after whatever workout you just did. If all else fails and you think you're popping a boner, just get out of there.

I agree with Giles, there isn't even the slightest chance of "exploring". Anyone who thinks that has obviously not been in a high school locker room.