have you ever been in love?

[Donkey]

spill :P

[Mortal Coil]

Now, don't laugh at this before you read it through.
I was in fifth grade.
I had a crush on this guy for the entire year, and still love him (platonically) even though he doesn't even know I exist except for when I bring food into school. Stupid love story, yeah, but it's the best one I have. I wouldn't know requited love if it bit me on the ass.

Okay, now you can laugh at it.

[Solvez18]

Mine's crazy but ever since my 4th year of my school (Im in my 9th now) i've fallen for this girl but our friendship was very weak so we never really spoke. but then last year when i was gonna tell her how i felt. i found she got a guy just before i was gonna tell her. so, loves a bitch and i shoulda mentioned it earlier. im kinda over her now. but i still regret it.

[Breakeven]

Yes 8-)

[XxAssasiNxX]

Start of this year. didint love her just really liked her. It got out and she told me to fuck off and stuff. its rhe same with every girl at my age. noewone is ready and i hate how people think there ready and interfere with it..

[Fushigi]

well yup, some people say that it's easy to fall in love but hard to stay in love, i can say that it's kinda true, based on my experiences, in the beginning you'll be sweet with each other saying such things like "i wanna be with you forever" "this will last" or something like that. but in the end it will end up like , "sorry i don't feel that love anymore" "you doesn't deserve me" etc... i hope people who fall in love with another person will put some efforts to stay in love ^^ but if the relationship didn't work you'll have to accept it and learn from it ( sorry for the kinda irrelevant post) :D

[Azunite]

Mhm

Thanks to her I am a renowned poet in not just my hometown, but my city as well.

[Jupiter]

currently.

love is a bitch. but she can be nice too.

[Efflorescence]

Infatuated? Yes. In a romantic relationship? Yes. In love? No.

I find that many people tend to mistake 'infatuation' for 'love'. It's kinda hard to tell at times.

[FullyAlive]

Infatuated? Yes. In a romantic relationship? Yes. In love? No.

I find that many people tend to mistake 'infatuation' for 'love'. It's kinda hard to tell at times.

That.

I'd say I have had strong feelings for people but is it love? I'm not really sure.

[Alexander The Great]

Yeah but its never worked out...I've gone through 4 ordeals, and nothing successful yet...and I'm about to go through my 5th ordeal

[Fiction]

I would say so, twice.

With an ex boyfriend and with my current boyfriend.

Like someone above said, it's easy to fall in love but harder to stay in love.

[Jess]

I am right now. I really like him, but he doesn't know and I'm too scared to tell him.

[ImCoolBeans]

I thought that I was in love with somebody around Christmas time, but more recently I've realized that I did not love that person, but I do love somebody else. Somebody who I'm close with and I know that this time it's the real deal. It's a feeling that is somewhat new to me, and it's kind of scary. It makes me happy and sad, but I wouldn't want the feelings to go away under any circumstances, which I can't see happening, despite the downsides.

[jjsmitty]

I had an incredible crush for a guy since the first year of Comprehensive (11/12 years old), we quickly became best friends (probably partially down to my secret burning desire :D ).
We had a great friendship, used to go out together and try new things, all the things that teenage boys do, I fell in love but never told him as I assumed he was straight. All through this period I had been struggling with my sexuality as I realised it wasn't just a bromantic type feeling I had for him, I started visualising us being together for the rest of our lives. Then I had my massive mountain biking crash at 15 and almost died, which strangely brought us closer, about 5 months after I decided it wasn't worth living a lie anymore and I decided to confess my bisexuality. Previous to this i'd had relationships with girls and so had he. I came out to him and three other friends at the same time, in the next sentence he came out a bisexual aswell. We grew much closer and decided to get together, which we still are 2 years down the line :D It turns out he'd supressed the feelings he'd had for me aswell, so for years we had secretly both been crushing for eachother, only problem was neither had the balls to say it :D
And they lived happily ever after ;)

[Donkey]

Infatuated? Yes. In a romantic relationship? Yes. In love? No.

I find that many people tend to mistake 'infatuation' for 'love'. It's kinda hard to tell at times.
That.

I'd say I have had strong feelings for people but is it love? I'm not really sure.

I think love is a big ooooooh word too that people like to add to their shock-horror list of 4 lettered words that seem to have some out of proportionally huge influence. In reality, love is just an emotion and it is human to believe we have never felt love until we met so and so.... then we meet someone else who we fall in love with and that invalidates the love you felt for the previous person. If you believe you're in love, you are. Just like if you think you hate someone, you do.

It is true that sometimes people just want to think they're in love and they're not though, that's not love. it's just unhealthy really

I thought that I was in love with somebody around Christmas time, but more recently I've realized that I did not love that person, but I do love somebody else. Somebody who I'm close with and I know that this time it's the real deal. It's a feeling that is somewhat new to me, and it's kind of scary. It makes me happy and sad, but I wouldn't want the feelings to go away under any circumstances, which I can't see happening, despite the downsides.
reminds me....

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[Fariko Draw]

Was in love once, few years back but they had to move away so the long distance would not of worked very well. recently there is someone, i feel almost the same as with the last person, but its early stages so only time will tell if it is truly love or not

[spiderdude]

Recently. I used to think about her every day for three years but I finally moved on

[Electra Heart]

Once, but it was with the wrong person. I don't foresee loving anyone or being loved by anyone in the near future.

[Donkey]

Once, but it was with the wrong person. I don't foresee loving anyone or being loved by anyone in the near future.
i dont think its something you expect much budster

[Electra Heart]

i dont think its something you expect much budster

That is understood, I just have a hard time believing something like that would happen again for, certain reasons... I'd rather spend my time admiring those who have access to such relationships than mope around in my own sorrows.

[ImCoolBeans]

Once, but it was with the wrong person. I don't foresee loving anyone or being loved by anyone in the near future.

i dont think its something you expect much budster

I've never expected love, it's just something that kind of happened

[Ambrosia]

I consider it love. So. Perhaps.

[Love.Hate]

I always used to think I was with people, but you know what I was so wrong. After finally learning the meaning of the word and how it makes you feel. I guess before it was more I felt flattered that people wanted to be with me, or a crush.

Yes I have and sadly still am, it's like being emotionally bonded to a person. Wheter they want you or not anymore. I find that being in love causes more problems than anything else for me 'cause all i want to do is move on.

[Toasteroven]

about a year ago i fell in love with my best friend, i still love him and i want to spend the rest of my life with him, sadly, he is going out with a bitch of a girl and denying that he likes me, its so obvious btw.

[Jean Poutine]

I am, very very very much so. I've had crushes before, stupid and not stupid. But I know that what I feel right now is the real deal.

[Iris]

Yes.

:heart:

[Heatbomb21]

Currently and once before.

First time was a while back. Liked a girl, took a gamble, told her, liked me back, started becoming friends, and JUST before we were good friends, a freak accident involving my location occured and I had to transfer. I GUARANTEE. If we had a few more years together, we'd have had some relationship. Now she barely remembers who I am.


Currently, one at my school, whom after looking a long-way back, I saw that she'd never done anything wrong in the time I have known her. And when I got closer to her in my school play, and heard her sing, I totally fell over.

[Shadowsinthedark]

Yes and I still am.
Long story short, I was introduced to this guy by one of my best friends, his name is Sam. The first moment I set eyes on him, I instantly liked him, it happened so quickly I couldn't quite understand it. It didn't take us that long to get together and although we weren't together for all that long, my feelings for him were really strong, stronger than any feeling I had ever experienced with another lad before. Things went on in his family and we ended up breaking up because he needed space and he said he didn't want me to get upset because he was upset about his family. The feelings never wore off, I still feel exactly the same about him as I did when we were together and we are still really close, so I'm happy :).

[LaLa]

yes, the only man I've been in love with is 18 years my senior. He's one of my best friends and treats me like his daughter. I would give anything to be with him.
He used to teach me and coach for my team. He's like that embarrassing dad you don't want to take anywhere. :) :wub:
He's getting married this summer.

[Dimitri]

Yes, right now...I can't imagine myself without him, I feel I need to be with him, I would taker a bullet for him...

I cannot fight the feelings, I know it has only been 5 months but I cannot imagine life without him...we have fought but it works out in the end. We disagree but it works out, all couples have these problems.

I do love him, i have never felt this gravitational pull to anyone else in my whole life. I think the longest I have gone without seeing him, physically is four days...I really think this is the real deal.

[Black.Veil.Brides]

yes... and i am now... my favorite flower isa black rose... evry morning when i wake up and go oitside there is a single black rose and a letter from my dearest Jamie... he tells me im beautiful evry day and tels me he loves me. one time he left a trail of black rose petals leading to his car where he was standing holding a box that had a promise ring in it... how sweet

[Aves]

I have at least three times. Two of them I was in a relationship with, the other one never really ended up working out too well in my favor. Now it kinda sucks because I have feelings for all three of them, but none of them share it back. As somebody has said, it's easy to fall in love, but a pain in the ass to fall out of love.

[Wonder.]

Never have been, and probably never will be. Every guy I know/meet is just a giant turn-off (not just because their straight). All my friends are girls because all the guys are complete dicks.

I also am pretty sure I am incapable of feeling love. Seriously.

[Stronger]

I consider it love. So. Perhaps.

Pretty much this. :|

[kiddo2002]

every relationship ive been in i was cheated on

[Ryhanna]

I don't think so, not yet.

[JessDaly]

I really dont know

[Akasuki]

Twice.

The first time, well...
We met on an online game and we thought we could do the online relationship thing.
She ended up falling in love with someone else and breaking up with me. It took a year to get over her.
We're still really close friends, although we have never met each other in person.

And I'm in love with the girl I'm with now.
Ironically, we met on the same online game and she lived a whopping 3000 miles away from me. I met her in person a month after we confessed that we liked each other, and I moved in with her about a year later.
She's the best thing that's ever happened to me. We'll be together for a year and a half next month.

[Sordid Saint]

Fuck yes but only once ever.

[therunaway]

Yup; I still feel like I'm in the relationship with her, even though she fucking hates my guts. :| Stupid bitch.

[Wayne92]

Yup, I was 17 and I waited for her for 9 months. We became very close and I told her all my secrets. She started liking me but she ended up being the village bicycle. She was my first love.:(

[Danny.Robertson]

Yeah I have been for a while but I really can't tell him because I don't think he would like me to tell him because he isn't Gay or Bi

[aaayyoo_avery]

Yes! :D 3years together with my girlfriend- thats true love :heart:

[plebble]

I have, and I still am :)

[Aceso]

Yes, I have.
One guy, two years. I thought we were close, but not really. He didn't care about me. I regret ever meeting him, it took me until early last year to get over him, which is when I met my first boyfriend. Same story essentially, only much worse. Same regrets, same mistakes.
Not sure about right now. I don't think I am, but I also don't feel like I need to be. I'm happy with the relationships I have with my friends, no point ruining that. I don't really need love right now, I probably couldn't do it on top of everything else at the moment.

[Breath-of-air]

Yes I have been, One was with this guy and he actually had a foot fetish haha, He made me become more open about things though so I'm glad we were together. It last about 6 months..nothin special.

I feel like I loved my second more but it was horrible... long story. He also was my best friend but yeahh..

[higherasprirations]

I know I am in love. She is a beautiful girl, hazel eyes, auburn hair, perfect height for me. She is the only girl I ever hurt, emotionally, for. The only one that stops me in my tracks or makes my heart skip a beat. I love her with every breath I take. The realationship is complicated though, she sends signals my way and flirts with me, but when I try to make a move she shys away. It is obvious she likes me, but she does not seem to want to take it to a relationship. I honestly can not see myself without her in my future. I finally worked up the nerve to tell her how I felt, but, of course, in a more masculine, not-so-touchy-feely kind of way and she freaked out, negatively. It crushed me. I hurt so bad, but I got over it and I began to avoid her. Every time I looked at her I hurt a little more, but after about two weeks of this, she returns to flirting with me. I still love her but I am so confused, she irritates me but intrigues me at the same time. I love her and dislike her at the same time. I can't seem to stay away or get enough...it's like an addiction.

[Curtis96]

Need to tell her

[Texas warrior]

Yes, best and worst thing to ever happen to me.