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lizzard9999
May 14th, 2012, 10:53 PM
Ok so theres this girl that ive known since first grade, and were really good friends. But for almost three years ive liked her. I dont really know if she likes me though. I want to try to ask her out but i dont know how. Can anyone help me?

Moai
May 14th, 2012, 10:57 PM
Try slightly flirting with her next time you talk to her, like give her tiny hints that you like her, but nothing to obvious. If she responds and sorta "gets it", then by all means try your best, but don't say "Hey, I like you let's hook up" just tell her how you feel in a sweet way and if she likes you back then she'll definitely go for it.

Also, be prepared that if she says no (which she definitely might, be wary) it'll be pretty awkward for a bit so your friendship may suffer. Good luck!

hotsauce12
May 14th, 2012, 11:33 PM
I have had this same dilema. Wait a bit, and just run through the scenarios in your head. if the relationship doesnt work out, is it worth losing her as a friend? figure that stuff out, and just pull her aside, and talk to her, tell her you like her, and that you have thought about it and have decided its worth the risk. if you dont think it is, then wait a bit till the moment passes, and tell her later on when your feelings are less intense, but honestly? I would eventually tell her either way.

lizzard9999
May 15th, 2012, 04:22 PM
Well the thing is i think that my friends have told her that i like her. So if she does know what would i do?

Fariko Draw
May 15th, 2012, 04:30 PM
Spend some time on your own with her and talk to her, if your friends have told her then it could be easier because then she would already know, but at the same time she would probably prefer hearing it from you. Just tell her you've liked her for a while now, always think bout her and wanna make her happy, she what she says mate :) good luck

Heatbomb21
May 16th, 2012, 09:30 PM
Hang out with her more and tell her not-so-straight at some point.
She'll pick up on the fact that you want to spend more time with her, and that should help.

lizzard9999
May 25th, 2012, 03:06 PM
Ok i tried all of that and none of it has worked. Thanks for the advice, but its not working so now i dont know what to do...

Green Arrow
May 25th, 2012, 03:08 PM
Flirt with her a bit, test your water. Then you'll know where you stand.

jessiecox1
May 25th, 2012, 10:11 PM
Try to spend some more time with her and flirt with her a little.