View Full Version : Does anyone else feel this way?
xXoblivionXx
May 14th, 2012, 10:20 PM
I want to talk to people about my problems so I can get better and not let things bottle up but when I do I feel like I am making drama and acting as if the world revolves around me. I feel bad for bringing other people into my problems. I HATE encumbering them. I want to get better but I don't want to bring people down, I rather be depressed than make another person depressed. I feel like a burden to the world. No one wants to talk to me, I'm just there. No one enjoys being around me :/ I hate making this world a rotten place to be :(
Desuetude
May 15th, 2012, 11:10 AM
I know exactly what how you feel. You want to be helped but you'd rather keep it to yourself than make someone else worse? You just have to remember that some people are there to help you, they care about how you feel and what happens to you. Some people it's okay to let in and you really should. It might make you feel like shit at first but hopefully when you open up it will be a massive weight lifted off your shoulders.
You do not bring bad to the world, I see you on VT trying to help people, giving them advice and all round being a good person. Even if you don't do that in real life you're making a good impact here, you're not a burden and although lots of people feel like that it's usually because they're scared. If someone knows something is wrong but you won't tell them anything that will probably make them feel more stressed than you saying something. Sometimes it's okay to let people know that you're not okay, especially people that can actually help you. Please remember that.
xXoblivionXx
May 15th, 2012, 04:00 PM
I know... I just hate getting that feeling. It's a disgusting feeling that makes want to lock myself in my room and never come out...
YOUNGFLYGUY
May 15th, 2012, 04:05 PM
I kno how u feel I listen to other people all the but when I need them to listen to me they dont..but if you nerd to talk I will talk to u any time about anything
Breakeven
May 15th, 2012, 04:22 PM
I feel the same way sometimes but hey if u ever need to talk im here :D
xXoblivionXx
May 15th, 2012, 04:28 PM
Thanks guys, the thing is even if someone does want to help I feel guilty and selfish...
Fractured Silhouette
May 15th, 2012, 05:02 PM
Yes, but try to overcome that guilt. Here's a fact; people feel better when they know they're helping! So your making them feel better by helping yourself and talking. It's win, win!
xXoblivionXx
May 15th, 2012, 07:02 PM
:) I will try, thanks for everything guys.
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