Fight with Mom

[president1234]

The Other day I was late for school and my mom was washing the dishes so I asked her if she wouldnt do them in the morning right before school anymore and she now wont do them in the morning at all. I then also asked her why there were shirts in my sock/underwear draw and she said that we ran out of room in the shirts draw so she now wont put the clothes away. We right now fight almost every day. My dad doesnt do shit to help us. Today I asked her if she could do my laundry and she said no rember that you always do it mixed up? Well she said now that She will only do it on Monday, and thursday. Guys, help me I want to be friends with her it is just getting hard. I yelled and called her a stupid b**** today after a fight I feel bad and I'll write a letter and leave it on her desk today. Guys what should I do? Help?

[Desuetude]

I'm sorry if I come off as rude, it honestly isn't intended.
Well it seems a bit disrespectful that you're telling her not to wash up in the mornings. I mean, why shouldn't she? If you want to do the dishes then go ahead but instead of thanking her for cleaning your things you just seem to be complaining about it. Maybe try showing a little more appreciating for the things she does and help her out every once in a while. If she is being like this and you want to get things sorted between you maybe you do the laundry a few times just to show that you do care and realise what she's doing for you.

A letter is a great idea, though you have to stick to it. Remember that shouting will not slove anything. You have to talk it over, have a mature conversation about it. Maybe sit her down and talk about things because she's probably feeling just as stressed out about this as you are. Try talking to your Dad as well, though with my parents (when they were together) if one of them was involved the other would just stay in the background so I'd say it was pretty normal for him to be staying out of the way (though a memory from 8 years ago isn't the most reliable).

You're on the right track actually wanting to make things better so I congratulate you on that. Try and make things better now before things get further down the line.

[Fariko Draw]

Well the first thing would be to say sorry for calling her a "Stupid B***h" then try to explain to her what you dont like and then ask her what she doesnt like, you should be able to come to a comprimise and it should get things back on track. Maybe she just wants a bit of help from you? or she thinks that everything she does isnt good enough for you, you wont know though till you sit down and speak to her, then you can get it all out in the open and sort things out :). Good luck mate, hope it goes well for you

[president1234]

I left a letter on her chair saying some resonsibilities that I will take over and I know it is not very respectful I was very mad and when mad I curse and if I didn't curse well we would have a lot of holes in the walls... I also told her sorry etc. Thanks guys.

[president1234]

I'll post on your walls if anything changes/what does happen in about a week.