are me and my friend gay for doing this???

[fitzman16]

-removed- Mike/ImCoolBeans

[Axel Ramirez]

Maybe ur just both straight with gay tendencies/feelings, or bi-curious. It could also be just simple male bonding.

[Stryker125]

doesn't sound like anything to worry about. raging hormones.

[Aaron Y]

mayb it is just a temporary adrenaline rush.

[gobs10]

he might of just been really horny lol

[SwaggaKid]

I doubt ur gay, its just ur curious at ur age. :)

[Jake777dylan]

Hormones trust me :D

[Incompris]

I think you are just curious, I doubt you are gay.

[CoolGuyXD]

I don't think this makes you gay because it was just fooling around mostly it sounds like. Just experimenting thats all.

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

My opinion, you're not gay at all cos u were just experimenting. Him? Maybe! Because he was taking it really far by asking for sex and stuff which signifies to me he really wanted you to. If u ever turn out bi or gay I consider u very lucky my friend!

[Psychintraining]

Honestly, I think there is no need to label that kind of behavior. He could be gay, you could be gay, you both could be bi or straight. Just because I put my dick in a guys mouth doesn't change the neuro-chemistry or life experience or whatever it is that shapes my sexuality. Now getting off my soap box, I think it is a gay behavior, but that doesn't change who you are and I would self-identify as straight, or curious. As much as I hate to admit it, grappling with one's sexuality is a huge stress, and sometimes it is easier, especially in the formative years to force yourself to "go with the flow" let yourself be straight, or to "be normal" (if you aren't sure of yourself I mean) and just let things happen. If you and a friend swap blowjobs, whatever, tell people you trust, don't jump to conclusions.

That's my advice. Because I too have struggled with a sexual identity and now I've come to realize sexual identity is more of a socialized concept than an individual one. I find no imperative to identify as anything other than a sexual person. I have exchanged blowjobs with a friend of mine multiple times, but haven't in a long time; does that make me gay because I did that once? I say certainly not because I've had more sex with women, and by that standard I couldn't be gay, I'd have to be bi. So am I Bi? I wouldn't say so. But the more important question is, does it matter, anyway? And the answer to that, I firmly believe, is no.

[irishguy123]

I dont think either of you are agy but the important question to ask yourself is:
did you enjoy it or not? That will help you to know

[ImCoolBeans]

Your post was far too explicit, and was not acceptable. It was un-editable because of this. :locked: