Un-wanting thoughts During Masturbation

[Adam88]

Its me Adam, and I want to thank those who helped me on my last problem. Well, if I am not annoying anyone, I would like to discuss another. You see I haave another. You see being that I had this whole issue with sexual orientaton, at times when I masterbate, and cum to a woman, a man will pop into my head. Why can't I concentrate? I mean I even masterbated today, and it happened again. I also have another issue, that is worse. Somtimes my mind is so worse, that my own nephews will pop in my head. Now let me tell you, I am NOT a child malester. I DON'T touch cildren to satisfy myself, and sometimes I stay away from them completley. Do you think I am mentaly disturbed. I am trying to think of what the problem is. When I was little, around the age of 5, my farther had a friend. Now let me tell, my parents always kept an eye on me, and I would have remembered if he took his penis out. Anyway, sometimes he would pick me up and kiss me on the neck, you know the way mothers do it to their babys. As I got older, the more I thought about it and got diturbed. I always thought, that grown men should never touch little kids this, way, no matter how harmless they think it is. My point, between cases like this idiot, and my nephew, or a handsom guy at college, they all pop into my head while a masturbate and cum to a woman. Whats going on?, Do you think I am an evil person?

[Camazotz]

No, this isnt rare(sometimes happens to me). It's hard to control all your thoughts. I think you are disturbed about what happened, but remember, you can tell if someone wanted to molest you. It doesnt sound like he was, probably being a little too friendly though. It's just your homones. And, no, youre NOT an evil person.

[Adam88]

Thank you so much. I really appreciate the feed back. Thanks for being considerate.

[Enkoi]

Yeah I agree with Camazotz...

Im a girl, but the same kinds of things happen to us too. Sometimes, I get my female cousin popped in my head.

I think it has to do with you are also sexually comfortable with (whether it's through actions, or just having talk about it).

It may feel wrong, but as long as actions aren't taken apon it, it is fine!

No you are definitely not an evil person =) I understand your concern though!

[Adam88]

Thanks Enkoi, I appreciate that.

[Glasgow]

Guys never pop in my head but i have had dreams where i was having sex with guys. (Well only one really and I was really grossed out)

The mind is a powerful thing and you can't always control it. Nothing to worry about, and if you are worried about your sexuality theres only one way to tell really. Experiment with both people.

[Maverick]

General Puberty :arrow: Boys Puberty

During puberty you'll get all kinds of weird feelings and thoughts. Don't be concerned too much.

I am NOT a child malester. I DON'T touch cildren to satisfy myself, and sometimes I stay away from them completley.
As long as you stay in that frame of mind, you've got nothing to worry about.