need some advice

[hotsauce12]

ok, so, I recently asked the most amazing girl ever out on a date, and she said yes. I have never been on a date before, and I was kinda hoping for just some general advice? I also have a few questions, but feel free to add in anything you think I should know lol

1) Should I go buy a condom just in case? Im not planning on anything, but still. if so, how do I go about it without being mega obvious?
2) Is kissing on the first date common at all?
3) Should I ask her to be my girlfriend towards the end of the date when I can still do it in person, or wait a couple days and ask her on fb? cuz after the date I wont get to physically see her for a while.
4) when kissing, where does my tounge go? everywhere I look, they say to not move it around much, but im also supposed to explore the front of her mouth with it? how do I do both at the same time?

[Desuetude]

Well how old are you would be the first of my questions.
1) Well although it's only a first date and it could go really well I guess you should take on just incase. If you actually want to be in a proper reationship with her though then I wouldn't do anything on the first date, get to know each other first. Usually public toilets have those machines that sell them, you could try and find your parents (I know it's disgusting to think that but usually they're around somewhere :/) or just go buy some, any shop is likely to sell them.
2) I think it is, usually a kiss at the end or something. I wouldn't be too full on about it though. Just go with what feels right.
3) See how the date goes and you could proably tell what she's feeling by the end. If she's having a good time maybe bring up another date or going out somewhere or even go on to ask her out. Really you'll know on the night, it's a bit hard to tell now.
4) Urr just do what feels right, I know I've said that about 50 million times already but you can't really tell until it actually happens and things will just fall into place.

Stop getting so worked up about it and planning every single detail. Go out and have fun because if you're all tense and neither of you are going to have a good time. Be spontanious!

[hotsauce12]

me and her are both 19

[FullyAlive]

1) Should I go buy a condom just in case? Im not planning on anything, but still. if so, how do I go about it without being mega obvious?

If you want something serious I wouldn't suggest sleeping with her on the first date, or at least don't make the first move.

2) Is kissing on the first date common at all?

Usually is yeah I think. At least I do so..

3) Should I ask her to be my girlfriend towards the end of the date when I can still do it in person, or wait a couple days and ask her on fb? cuz after the date I wont get to physically see her for a while.

That's up to you and tbh I wouldn't try planning it, for all you know the date might not be what you expect. I'd play it by ear and wait and see.

4) when kissing, where does my tounge go? everywhere I look, they say to not move it around much, but im also supposed to explore the front of her mouth with it? how do I do both at the same time?

Its kind of hard to explain really it just depends, I wouldn't say so much explore as just do what feels nice, guide each other in that way

[Fariko Draw]

1) Should I go buy a condom just in case? Im not planning on anything, but still. if so, how do I go about it without being mega obvious? You should just incase, like they say best to be safe then sorry, as for not being obvious, either go to your school clinic, if you have one? or your local clinic will give you one. If that fails supermarket
2) Is kissing on the first date common at all? Depending how close you are to her, yh quite common, normally during the date, or when you take her home (near the end of the date)
3) Should I ask her to be my girlfriend towards the end of the date when I can still do it in person, or wait a couple days and ask her on fb? cuz after the date I wont get to physically see her for a while. Hard one, see if you both get on with each other well first, if you do then ask her if she sees you as bf material, if she likes you enough she will say yes.. if she does then ask her, or safer option would be to wait and ask her on fb, or text her (better to be in person when you ask someone out, but next best thing i guess)
4) when kissing, where does my tounge go? everywhere I look, they say to not move it around much, but im also supposed to explore the front of her mouth with it? how do I do both at the same time? Everyone has different tactics, when you do kiss, keep it natural, girls dont like it when boys move it around alot, be like a snake in her mouth, but do it slowly moving from like left to right, up to down and vice versa :)

Good luck mate, hope it goes well for you