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Tim Smith
May 12th, 2012, 10:30 PM
So I had been invited to a party for people involved in a group at school, and at the party there was a lot of alcohol and a lot of my friends got very drunk. I had never been to a party like this and it was interesting for me to watch what was happening, but also strange and uncomfortable because I had never seen my friends (who are mostly older than me by 1 or 2 years) behaving in this way before.
One of my friends, who is 16 and was really drunk, told me that I was gay and didn't know it yet (btw i'm not actually gay, and it seems that he is gay but suppresses it, and it only comes out when he is drunk) and followed me around trying to hook up with me. He kept telling me how much he was attracted to me, and what he wanted to do.
I'm not sure what to do know and I am very confused. Do people tell the truth when they are drunk? Does he really feel this way about me?
(btw im a 15yo straight male)
ImCoolBeans
May 12th, 2012, 11:12 PM
That could have very well been drunk horniness talking. When people drink alcohol their decision making goes out the window, and filtering of what they say/don't say is gone. If he told you he's gay when he was drunk then chances are he was telling you the truth, he just wouldn't have felt comfortable saying it without alcohol being a factor.
FullyAlive
May 13th, 2012, 04:22 AM
He might have a slight attraction to you, but either way I don't think you should bring it up he hasn't told you soberly for a reason I think you should just wait see if he remembers (sounds unlikely) and I'd not just move on past it.
Abnormal
May 13th, 2012, 04:32 AM
He was drunk. Chances are he had no idea what he was saying or why. He just said it because...well, he was drunk. Drunk people don't normally say anything...particularly serious, most of the time. If I were you, I'd forget that it ever happened and go on with life and perhaps try to get him to better monitor how much alcohol he consumes.
norcaldude18
May 14th, 2012, 05:45 PM
most people dont have a filter on the stuff they say when they are drunk. there is no way of telling if he is gay or not.
Destructive Impulse
May 14th, 2012, 05:49 PM
I'm not gonna lie this is hilarious. He was drunk so I wouldn't think too much of it
Bojan
May 16th, 2012, 11:05 AM
There is a reason they call alcohol courage juice. It's likely what he was saying is the truth and he just wasn't comfortable telling you while he was sober
Will Grigg's on Fire
May 16th, 2012, 11:13 AM
Yup, most likely has a crush on you... Whenever I see my friends get drunk (which I HATE) they do stupid things and I'm sure the don't remember what they do...
2 Girls from my grade sent out naked pictures of themselves to people when they were drunk... So being drunk leads to actions you won't do when sober!
Don't mention it to him unless he says something about it when sober.
YOUNGFLYGUY
May 16th, 2012, 12:20 PM
You should,tell him what he was saying while drunk....and its said thet a drunk mind speaks sober thoughs
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