Loss of self?

[Trickster]

Okay bear with me... but i need advice on this
I am a mixed male with long hair and it is straight. and most people of my gender either have it short and cut or long and braided or dread. but im that little in between. I got it braided because my mother asked me too but...I feel so less of myself now. like i litereally feel horrible. and this isnt the first time. I don't know why but whenever my hair changes i feel this way. any tips or help please?

[Fractured Silhouette]

I feel the same way everytime my hair gets cut or changes. If it's not the way I like it then I hate it. It just isn't me unless it's the way I like it.

It depends on how much your hair means to you in a way. You just have to try and accept your hair or change it back to the way you enjoyed it. It's your hair after all, not anybody else's.