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LETSGOJETS
May 11th, 2012, 10:15 PM
So theres this girl that I like and I don't have the guts to ask her out. We sit next to each other in Art and Reading. (Im in school still). I think she has been giving me some hints like for example. She trys and trys to talk to me constantly. She always is looking at me. Like today I was sitting down I look over at her and she is looking at me. Should I ask her out or what will happen.

RCT109
May 11th, 2012, 10:47 PM
well If you think she likes you than ask her out
the worst thing she can say is no right

so go for it

Aves
May 11th, 2012, 11:07 PM
Don't do what I did, ever. I had a feeling this girl wanted me to ask her out, but I was never sure. I liked her too, but I always thought "Why would she like a guy like me?" Well, turns out she did want me to ask her out, and looking back, the worst that really could have happened was she said no. When I finally did ask her out, she said yes.

Don't be afraid though. It's not that big of a deal, especially in high school (assuming you're not in middle school)

ImCoolBeans
May 12th, 2012, 09:02 AM
Honestly, as Connor said, the worst thing she can say is no; and then it's over and done with. Just be straight forward and ask her out. If you catch her staring at you, and she has given you good enough reason to think that she likes you, then there is a good chance that she does.

Charoum
May 12th, 2012, 03:50 PM
As other people have said, the worse that can happen is she says no, then life moves on. If you're afraid of the rejection that's alright, I am sure most people are, including myself. It is better to try and have failed, than never tried at all. There was someone that I liked and thought they liked me, but I was too nervous to say anything, a few years later when they had moved and I made contact with them, I found out that they did like me and would have gone out with me had I asked them. Just try to stay calm, or make the bold move and just say it bluntly, the worst that can happen is they say no. But you will still be alive and the sun will rise the next day. =^)