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Runner2011
May 10th, 2012, 09:44 PM
Im bi and I like a guy but I'm not sure if my parents will like that. So confused. Also me and my mom have a good relationship so I can't break her trust...again.:wub:
Midland
May 11th, 2012, 12:09 AM
I'm assuming that she knows you're bi, if not I'd definitely tell her. It kind of depends on how you broke her trust. I'd tell her everything thats going on and hopefully she would understand. If she disapproves it, I would step back a bit and try not to do anything behind her back. Take it slow and don't pressure her. In the end its your life and you will have to do what you feel is right mainly for you but also for others.
Archerer2012
May 11th, 2012, 01:48 PM
If your mom doesn't know it would be best to tell her, and if you act it she probably already knows. Like ^ said it depends on how u broke her trust. And you said u have a strong relationship with your mom so she should understand who u like or not:) if you need more advice, pm me or email me k? K:)
PerpetualMotionSquad
May 11th, 2012, 02:36 PM
Keep relationship secret for a while and when u get into it a lot tell ur parents and they can't really change u then cos u love someone so they'll have to accept :P
jjsmitty
May 11th, 2012, 02:48 PM
I wouldn't reccomend turning up at home with a boyfriend without telling your parents if that's what you're thinking. You need to make sure you are comfortable with him first, dont go marching up to your parents with "i'm bi and this is my boyfriend" only to then break up a week later. Also make sure you are actually attracted to guys in general, not just curious, most importantly dont rush anything or make any rash decisions.
Midland
May 11th, 2012, 08:52 PM
Keep relationship secret for a while and when u get into it a lot tell ur parents and they can't really change u then cos u love someone so they'll have to accept :P
If he's broken his mum's trust, I wouldn't recommend doing it behind her back in the hopes that by the time she finds out it will be too late to do anything about. Full communication and honesty would be the best option. Just hang out with the guy you like for while and talk to your mum about him and how you feel when you're ready, before you try going behind her back which I wouldn't.
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