Comparing? Help!

[ryansmith13]

Hi everyone. So I've been having weird urges to compare sizes with my friend. I finally got the courage to ask if he wanted to compare, he said he was wanting to do the same thing.

I dont want it to be awkward between us, we're practically brothers...I really want to compare though. Do you guys have any suggestions on how I can do it? Like times to do it? Sleep over?

I dont know. I've been acting weird lately. I know I'm straight... but I am SUPER curious to see if I'm the same size? Anyone else feel like this?

[skandardude]

I don't think it will be awkward for you guys if you set your boundaries and limitations first--whatever those may be, (the cool thing is that you two get to decide that). It is absolutely normal to compare and want to compare. It's normal for dudes our age. A sleep over would be a good time to do it, but just be cool about it... don't make it uncomfortable; because if you guys are like brothers it won't matter, so have fun. So just have fun.

[Highschool1995]

it wont be awkward just do it at a sleep over

[riotroger]

I don't think its awkward at all. You guys are practically brothers, and you're both interested in comparing. In my mind youre not doing anything sexual, its just your hormones and curiosity, we've all been there. Sleepover is the best time to do it.

I was worried about the same thing when I asked a buddy of mine to compare and watch porn together, he was totally fine with it and when we did it I feel like it strengthened our friendship. In my mind its a great way to bond with your bro, cause comparing/watching that together is a very personal thing to guys, and being able to be comfortable enough to share that with your friend could be an amazing experience. Just be careful, cause it may have the opposite effect. But if you guys are practically brothers it should mean you guys can share (mostly) everything with one another.

All in all, look but don't touch xD. Touching is another huge step and may backfire significantly.

[ImCoolBeans]

Asking for techniques and tips as to how to to experiment with somebody is not allowed :locked: