Can I get her back?

[CMEBACH]

This is a bit of a long story so sit tight.
What happened was i started dating a girl who i really liked and around the same time i started talking to another girl on Facebook. Now me and the other girl did flirt for a few days but really as soon as me and my girlfriend got serious i told the girl even though we could still talk we couldn't flirt or anything. Now me and my girlfriend went fine for about 3 months but then one day out of the blue after not talking to me for a week the girl texts me and says she told my girlfriend everything... even though nothing had happened. What my girlfriend said she said i said was that i would "teach her how to do it" which i never said, the flirting at it's most was "if i wasn't dating her who knows what we could do" which is really bad i know but i was stupid and it happened. but ya my girlfriend believed her over me because the girl had her friends tell her the same thing and i couldn't do anything to fix it we broke up. Now almost 4 months later we're at a point where we can kinda talk as part of a group but not one on one, and we're always making just really awkward eye contact and i know she knows i want her back but i can't tell if she feels the same way and i just need adivce on how to talk to her about it and if i'm ever gonna have another chance with her...
Help?

[Charoum]

I would suggest that you really try to get to talk to her one-on-one first off. After that, explain to her that the things you said were before things were serious, and that you had stopped flirting with the girl on Facebook. Everyone makes mistakes and that's the part of being human, and everyone should at least be given another chance. As for the parts that the girl made up, try to tell her that it was actually made up, which I am sure you have, but keep trying. Remember, some of the best things that hold relationships together are honesty and communication, and no offence, seems like parts of these are missing. She probably feels betrayed and insecure because of that situation, you will most likely have to try and rebuild your trust with her and start a relationship with a clean slate. I would say that you should at least tell her that you will be willing to prove to her that you love her and only her and that you really wish to make your relationship work. If she won't take you back right away, don't be discouraged, show her you're willing to fight for her, keep your head up buddy and be persistent.