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MattKing
May 9th, 2012, 08:38 PM
So my friend wants to experiment with me and I kinds want to. But I'm afraid of doing it. I'm to nervous. And I don't wanna get Siward with him... and what if he goes to far with me..... what should I do???
StoppingTime
May 9th, 2012, 08:57 PM
Personally, I would do nothing. Nothing at all. Don't do that with him if you don't feel comfortable. You don't want to potentially ruin a relationship over something stupid like that.
If he asks, just say you don't want to, it's fine.
ImCoolBeans
May 9th, 2012, 08:59 PM
ATTENTION
If this turns into a thread which discusses how to experiment it will be locked immediately. Keep this appropriate and don't let it go too far.
As for your question, if you're nervous and potentially do not want to do it, then don't. No body is going to force you into an uncomfortable situation if you don't want to be in it.
sxeboy
May 9th, 2012, 09:09 PM
Ya, just tell him to stop if you feel uncomfortable, he should.
Tonebone88
May 9th, 2012, 10:32 PM
It's ultimately your choice. If the idea makes you uncomfortable, then tell him and you won't have to do anything. If you decide you want to experiment, then there is nothing stopping you.
CoolGuyXD
May 10th, 2012, 10:08 AM
It is your body. If you don't want to do it then tell him.
jjsmitty
May 10th, 2012, 10:18 AM
By the sound of it the ball is is your park, if you dont want to do it then you dont have to, if you do want to try it out then go ahead, both are completely normal. However if you do decide to go ahead just think about the possible effect it could have on your future friendship.
tyeguy
May 10th, 2012, 01:47 PM
personally if a friend asked me i would do it in a heart beat!!!! but its you life bro... why do something you dont wanna do...
irishguy123
May 10th, 2012, 02:01 PM
Go with what ever you feel is right. If you want to then do it, then do.
Whats the worst that can happen.
My advice......... ENJOY IT!
Short Circuit
May 10th, 2012, 02:06 PM
Never do anything your uncomfortable with, so if you really dont want to do it, DONT
riotroger
May 10th, 2012, 06:41 PM
Personally I would jump at the opportunity (depending on who the friend is). If you're really that curious about it just take things step by step, otherwise don't do anything you're uncomfortable with :D
Tom Stone
May 11th, 2012, 11:40 AM
I'm sure he'll be happy to do as much as you're willing to do. If you both want to try experimenting I say go for it. It opened a whole new world for me and I never looked back.
BrassMonkey
May 11th, 2012, 04:43 PM
Like some people have said above. Make sure you are both ok with it, and set some limits. If you are uncomfortable with it, then tell him.
Jake777dylan
May 12th, 2012, 08:41 AM
It's your descion ok I would do it so fast lol but it to life
zach17020
May 12th, 2012, 09:43 AM
just do it.. lol
gobs10
May 14th, 2012, 01:12 AM
if you want to then do it... if he starts to go too far then tell him to stop
norcaldude18
May 14th, 2012, 02:33 AM
i say give it a try because i wish i had a friend to experiment with.when you get older you may have wished you did.
Bojan
May 16th, 2012, 12:41 PM
Set boundaries before you start tell him what you feel comfortable doing and don't be scare to say no if he goes to far
Zydeco
May 16th, 2012, 10:12 PM
If you're already apprehensive about doing it, then you probably should hold off on experimenting with your friend.
Upgrade_U
July 14th, 2012, 03:08 AM
Just go as far as you are willing to go and if he is a good friend he will understand when you want to stop
Odst
July 14th, 2012, 06:52 AM
if you dont feel comfortable with it then dont do it, but if you want to then there is nothing wrong with it, just let him know if he starts going to far
fast8
July 14th, 2012, 07:00 AM
go ahead an try what u want to just tell him what u want to do so dont go where u dont want it to
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