View Full Version : I cant stand him any more
Highschool1995
May 9th, 2012, 07:58 PM
This guy has no friends i decide to be friends with him but he gotten so annoying like he follows me every where and he sits next to me all the time and now he is acting like a bully calling fat and everything so how can i make him stop? please help me.
Stronger
May 9th, 2012, 08:32 PM
Tell him the truth, listen you are getting too annoying, I don't not like you bullying me, so stop, and if he's immature about walk away from him and end the friendship, but try and have a serious convo with him.
boonsim
May 9th, 2012, 10:21 PM
I have sure made that mistake enough times. Just be forward about it.
Highschool1995
May 9th, 2012, 10:36 PM
I want to do that but I don't want to sound like a jerk.
boonsim
May 9th, 2012, 11:34 PM
Now he is acting like a bully calling fat and everything
Hmm, he sure sounds like a jerk, so isn't it kind of warranted. If he's being mean to you, you have all the right to speak your mind (even if it comes out mean).
OregonStateDude
May 10th, 2012, 08:55 AM
Yeah, why are you even friends with this guy if he is just going to drag you down? You should make excuses to not hang out with him, and see if he gets the hint.
If I treated Justin (my best friend) like that, I don't think we would be friends much longer.
commikid
May 10th, 2012, 04:41 PM
Oh god I've been in many situations like this. I knew this one lad that I hated but he would keep hanging around with me asif I was his pal. He continued to do this even after he knew I didnt like him :/. But over to your situation... If the guy doesn't have many mates then you have now found out why haha but whatever you do YOU wont look like a jerk because no one is his mate anyway. you need to tell him that you dont find the stuff he is saying funny, you dont have to say it in a big formal conversation you can show him your point when he calls you a name or cracks a joke thats of bad taste just say something along the lines of "is that supposed to be funny?" or "do you think I'm going to hang round with someone that calls me that?" so thats the easiest approach I would have said then there is always another way to do it and that is to distance yourself. Hang round with people he doesn't like and tell the teacher at school that he is distracting you and could you sit somewhere else etc. I've had your problem many of times and its not that hard after its happend once or twice. Oh and remember... Be Who You Want To Be Not Who Others Choose To See!... Let us know how you get on :)
Highschool1995
May 13th, 2012, 04:06 PM
ok so the other day he said i was his best friend now im going to feel even worst telling him to leave me alone
commikid
May 13th, 2012, 04:10 PM
ok so the other day he said i was his best friend now im going to feel even worst telling him to leave me alone
Dont tell him to leave you alone lol, I wish I was there I would help you out! you just need to wait for him to do something you dont like then thats when you tell him how you feel :)
Highschool1995
May 13th, 2012, 07:41 PM
thats going to take a while, at least i think so
commikid
May 14th, 2012, 05:59 PM
thats going to take a while, at least i think so
Well if he aint being horible to you for the minute can't you hold out untill you have the right moment or are you like wanting to get rid of him asap?
norcaldude18
May 14th, 2012, 06:44 PM
tell him youndont want to be friends or just be mean to him and ignore him. he will get the point
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