Confused

[stew4rt]

I have had feelings for guys for a while now but I'm not sure if it means I'm bi or not, I'm still attracted to girls, I'm just confused weather my feelings for guys mean that I am bi. Can anyone help?

[Harley Quinn]

You can have feelings for the same sex without it being a big deal, don't rush to label yourself. It doesn't mean your bi, doesn't mean much just that you're attracted to who you're attracted to. In time you'll realise inside yourself what you are.

[stew4rt]

Thank you, much appriciated :)

[KenBoy6]

Maybe your just bi its ok to like both

[Stryker125]

eh, I wound't worry about it that much. either way, it's not a huge deal anyway.

[KarkatLuv]

dosen't really matter, but the answer will come in time

[stew4rt]

How did you guys know?

[jjsmitty]

Nothing to worry about, just remember to take your time about it. 2 things not to do, 1. Dont rush out and label yourself, only to then go back and change on your mind 2. Dont turn up at home for Christmas or whatever with a boyfriend without telling the people that most matter.

I knew I was bi because I could see myself in 10-15 years either living with a guy or a girl happily, by my measurements if you cant see yourself with either sex then in my opinion you are either gay or straight. But, this is just my opinion, take your time.

[stew4rt]

Nothing to worry about, just remember to take your time about it. 2 things not to do, 1. Dont rush out and label yourself, only to then go back and change on your mind 2. Dont turn up at home for Christmas or whatever with a boyfriend without telling the people that most matter.

I knew I was bi because I could see myself in 10-15 years either living with a guy or a girl happily, by my measurements if you cant see yourself with either sex then in my opinion you are either gay or straight. But, this is just my opinion, take your time.

Thank you, this is very helpful and I will follow your advice closely :)

[stew4rt]

How did any of you guys realise you were bi, what key things made your mind up?

[ExhibitG]

How did any of you guys realise you were bi, what key things made your mind up?

i call myself bisexual on here mostly but in reality nobody knows at all and i'm still confused. i really don't want to be bi, but i guess that's just something that can't be changed. the reason why i call myself bi at least on VT is because i know for a fact i'm sexually attracted to guys way more than i am to girls. on the other hand, i'm more emotionally attracted to girls than i am to guys (i've had crushes on girls, but none on guys, etc.)

what specifically are you feeling toward guys? emotional or sexual? and what about girls?

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

You have not stated what feelings so here's how I'm gonna help you:
Straight: emotional feelings and sexual feelings for he opposite sex
Curious: emotional feelings for the opposite sex and sexual feelings for both sexes
Bisexual: emotional and sexual feelings for both sexes
Gay: emotional and sexual feelings for the same sex and limited sexual attraction to opposite sex
Lesbian: basically gay but, yeah ya get the idea
Hope I helped remember you do not have to label yourself but these are the simpler labels

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

And I realised I was gay by girls not turning me on no more nor did I want a relationship with one. Boys on the other hand :D :D. Sorry for spamming thread I just didn't see your other question until now.

[stew4rt]

What is emotional and sexual attraction, I don't understand what they are, can you define this please. I don't mind that you posted more than once it's no problem :) .

[YOUNGFLYGUY]

It depends o.,how u act on them..you might just be bi-curious

[Lovemeorleaveme]

What is emotional and sexual attraction, I don't understand what they are, can you define this please. I don't mind that you posted more than once it's no problem :) .
emotional attraction means your attracted to them psychologically and emotionally
sexual attraction means your attracted to them physically and sexually

[stew4rt]

thank you people