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WolfMan
May 9th, 2012, 10:44 AM
I fell for one of my close friends and am going to ask her out.
If she says no, I don't really care. However I don't want it to be weird if that is the case. I want advice on how to act and what to say if she does say no.
If you guys could help I would really appreciate it.
Thanks.

Desuetude
May 9th, 2012, 11:02 AM
Close friends are always a tricky one but if you're sure then it's great that you're going for it.
If she says no just tell her that it's cool and that you still want to be friends and also that you don't want things to be weird between you. Don't act any differently than before, joke around with her and just act as you would with anyone else. Don't try and hide and try not to get anxious because that won't really help much.
Really if she is that good a friend although it might come as a shock to her, if she doesn't feel the same way, she should be able to get over and move on from it.

jjsmitty
May 9th, 2012, 11:11 AM
Well if she says no just try to make sure you stay cool, calm and collected. Try not to act any differently than you would normally/if this was someone other than a good friend.
If she's not expecting it then it could come as a bit of a shock, reassure her that it wont get in the way of your friendship.
Just my thoughts, although ive never been in this situation before so you could just ignore everything ive said :D

RCT109
May 9th, 2012, 07:32 PM
If she says no then just shrug it off and stay freinds

LatinaVivit
May 9th, 2012, 09:29 PM
Just brush it off and act confidence. Girls like confidence(from what I've been told), so maybe after seeing that she'll reconsider..?