girlfriends

[big guy]

hey i was just wondering if any1 has any suggestions on when it comes to getting a girlfriend. i was just wondering because i at the age now where everyone i know is either in a current relationship, or has been in a past relationship. does any1 have any advice? let me know.

[Maverick]

Boys Puberty :arrow: Relationships

[Serenity]

lol well you might start by not using pictures of women flaunting their breasts in your signiature :P

As for a relationship, you don't 'get' one. If/when the time comes, you'll meet someone you're really into and you both will make the decision to be together. It's not like shopping lol

[big guy]

o okay, it's just i want to be with someone, i mean, just to get use to it for one, and also so that i have experince for the future.

[Maverick]

As for a relationship, you don't 'get' one. If/when the time comes, you'll meet someone you're really into and you both will make the decision to be together. It's not like shopping lol
I agree. Good advice.

If you only want to be in a relationship for the 'experience' then don't expect them to work out. You should be in a relationship because you're both interested in each other, otherwise you'll be wasting your time.

[Serenity]

yeah I totally know where you're coming from- it's just not something you can force. I mean, here I am 16, just got into my first relationship, and I'm already realizing that people are complicated and emotional wrecks that I'm glad I didn't start getting seriously involved with before now. Dating someone is actually a lot more than people think prior to it- it's not just all holding hands in the hallway and kissing hello and goodbye, there's another human being with feelings and thoughts that are just as crazy and jumbled as yours who is now a major part of your life. It can be hard to keep up with at times, especially if you're like me and can barely keep up with yourself :P

[Sage]

You shouldn't just want one because everybody else has one. That's conformity, a common trait of weak-minded individuals.

[Glasgow]

yeah I totally know where you're coming from- it's just not something you can force. I mean, here I am 16, just got into my first relationship, and I'm already realizing that people are complicated and emotional wrecks that I'm glad I didn't start getting seriously involved with before now. Dating someone is actually a lot more than people think prior to it- it's not just all holding hands in the hallway and kissing hello and goodbye, there's another human being with feelings and thoughts that are just as crazy and jumbled as yours who is now a major part of your life. It can be hard to keep up with at times, especially if you're like me and can barely keep up with yourself :P


Wow that was really well put :) And i admire you for not giving into the "force" lets say of having a boyfriend/girlfriend just for the sake of one. Anyways im rambling, like everyone else said..just because everyone else has a girlfriend doesnt mean you need one. You havent mentioned that there is a girl that you like, only that you want one for future help. Therefore there is no point in having one :| Besides, being single is great :D You can talk, hug, and hang out with any girl you want and you wont have a girlfriend nagging being jelous.

So yeah, be smart. Wait until you find someone you really care about

[big guy]

i shouldn't have said i wanted one for experince. it's just... i just want to be with someone, and just get out there. is a part me not wanting to be embarressed, yes. but that's not all of it. yes i do like someone, girl named katie. i just want to be in a relationship with someone thats all

[CryingEye666]

i know whatchu mean man
you just want that very special someone
i know how you feel man
the same with me too :/

[Glasgow]

Well good luck with that katie girl then

[marine_sniperman35]

lol yea dude...women showing their breasts not such a great idea when it comes to girlfriends. But here's my philosophy...it's important to have someone that makes you laugh, that you can tell anything to, and that makes you feel wanted...and it's really important these three people don't know each other. :) lol jk. Yea heres some good advice...
1) Treat her the way she deserves to be treated.
2) Don't get mad at her even if she gets mad at you. It will help with her knowing that you really do care.
3) Listen to her.
4) If you live near a ski resort...TAKE HER SNOWBOARDING/SKIING!! That works Miracles in the relationship!!!
5) If she is crying hold her.
6) If she is cold give her your jacket even if it is -10 out!!!
7) Hold her hand.
8) Hold her in front of your friends.
9) Don't be embarassed to tell her you love her (ONLY SAY THAT IF YOU MEAN IT!!!! I WILL BE ON YOUR ASS IF YOU SAY IT AND YOU DON'T MEAN IT!!!)
10) Kiss her gently on the lips. NO TONGUE!!! Eyes closes...and just kiss her gently. Ohh one more thing NOOOO TOUNGUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NO!!!!!! CUT THAT DAMN THING OUT IF YOU HAVE TO!!!!! NO TONGUE!!!!



NO!!!!




I SAID NO!!!!!


lol thats my advice.

[whiterecyclables94]

umm why no tongue haha

anyway my advice to u would be to start talking to katie strike up a conversation with her it doesn't matter about what ex: if she went shopping ask her what she bought get her talking about the things she likes to do the things that she looks for in a guy and get her talking about things cuz that always makes someone feel good o another thing make sure ur breath doesn't stink and u dont have B.O for girls its a big turn off i would say pursue katie become her friend and flirt with her just do what comes natural to you dont try to be someone your not because believe me if you lie then it will usually crash down on u later

[Octo22]

Seriously, tongue is allowed if the relationship gets to that point..also all women are different, marine is talking about one specific type of girl. Doing what he said would cause a lot of girls I know to feel suffocated.

It's okay to occasionally hold the girl around your friends, but focus more on having fun with them while out, than being all touchy feely. Girls want to have fun, not just be hugged non-stop.

[marine_sniperman35]

lol yea those were tips for dates mostly...

[Octo22]

aah okay