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riotroger
May 7th, 2012, 08:24 PM
These events happened a year ago but... I have this friend in high school and we both realized we were curious in experimenting. Then before we did anything, he backed out all of a sudden and said he's totally not into guys. So I was cool about it, didn't get upset or anything just moved on. For the next year he starts becoming obsessed with girls, and he's started to become really homophobic.

Not going to give any specific examples, but yeah he basically thinks being gay is a sin and its wrong. So of course we've gotten into a ton of arguments since he's turned into a homophobe. He's a little bit better, but I can tell he's still a homophobe.

What do I do? Apparently he used to be really homophobic when he was younger, then stopped and started again... so I don't know. I don't exactly care that he is cause we aren't great friends anymore, but he still makes comments from time to time and that bothers me a lot. He's 2 years younger than me btw, he's 16 now.

So yeah... any ideas?

Oh yeah... just realized I never made a blog introducing myself before I started posting. Anyways I'm Andrew, 18 just joined from the US. Easy-going guy looking to meet new people online that's about it. Im easy to talk to and glad to join VT!

TDB95
May 7th, 2012, 08:36 PM
Well theres not much you can do some people are just wired that way and you cant change how some on thinks you only say what you feel and thats that but i dont think you should let a small issue like this come between your friendship

riotroger
May 7th, 2012, 08:39 PM
Well theres not much you can do some people are just wired that way and you cant change how some on thinks you only say what you feel and thats that but i dont think you should let a small issue like this come between your friendship

Thanks! And I know :/ I forgot to clarify but he actually broke up our friendship not me lol x.x

Magenta
May 7th, 2012, 08:41 PM
Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality

TDB95
May 7th, 2012, 08:42 PM
Well im sorry that happend but dont dwell on the past you can try to fix your friendship or move on dont let it affect you to much

LuckyLuke
May 8th, 2012, 09:17 PM
Frankly speaking, he's likely suppressing his homosexual feelings and taking out these frustrations in a bad way.

Bobby08
May 23rd, 2012, 12:50 AM
Just ignore him, if your Gay than that's perfectly fine!!!!