I Like Someone That is Moving Away.

[TaylrJ]

Since January, I have liked this guy. He is the same age as me, 14. I also think I am bisexual. I think he is gay too. I just don't know if he knows that or not. Him being at the very beginning of puberty making him still confused. People ask him if he is gay. Of course, he replies with a no and is silent for a while acting offended. I think I actually love him. I would do anything for him and I care about him so much. At home, when away from him, it brings me so much depression. I try to find so many ways to be with him. Like bringing up the stupidest things on Facebook just to talk to him. I wish I could tell him all this. I already know what is reaction would be. He would be creeped out and think of me as that kid who was a gay and was in love with him. Probably never talking to me again. It would just be totally different if he was more mature and farther into puberty, so he would realize he was gay already. Which I just thought once we get older and I still like him. We would probably date and talk more. But he is going to move schools. Away from me so I can't see him ever. I try to be with him even more now. Since there is only 3 weeks left of school. I wish he would like me back. I try to find hints of him liking me, hoping that he does. But it is just wishful thinking. Once he moves away I don't know what I am going to do. I am going to cry so much over him and be so depressed. What would you do if you were in this situation and someone you loved was leaving? What should I do? Thanks...

[Desuetude]

I'm really sorry he's moving, it's hard when people you care about are so far away.
You have to try and think about it this way, which would be easier to deal with. You tell him you like him and him saying he also has feelings for you which would probably make it harder to part when he leaves or just leaving it and not knowing whether he ever would/did like you? Also if you went for the first one you have to take into consideration the fact that he could reject you as a case of him being confused with his sexuality or just not feeling the same way about you.
When he's gone you can always comunicate via computer or email but if you wanted to start a long distance relaionship then keep in mind most of the time they don't work unless you both completely want the same thing and are willing to communicate and work on it. It's a lot of thinking and stressing but the end result is he's moving away. When he does just keep yourself occupied and busy, go out with friends more and spend time with them. However know that it's fine to cry and miss him, just don't get consumed in those feelings because it's hard to get out again. Have fun and laugh because that's the best thing for you.