Awkward..

[Gandalf]

A girl asked me out, while I like her and wouldn't mind having a relationship. It scares me. I'm awkward. I don't know how to behave with girls (as > friends). Since my social skills are a quite lacking.

Also, since I think we are both attracted to each other, what's the best way to subtly find out her views on sex? I don't want to hurt her feelings.

I don't really want to mess this up she has even gave me a bit of time before commiting to anything, I said we need to get to know each other better. Which is true. But it looks promising :wub:

Thanks again VT members for giving me the time of day to assist me :)

[spiderdude]

I'm sorry but I can talk girls really easy so if she likes you that mean just be your self that's what she wants and as the sex thing goes I can't help you sorry

[Halberdear]

Don't get to serious yet, or she might freak out. Go out on the date with her, and build up a healthy relationship. It might be awkward at first, but just push through.

Good luck.

[Tristar21]

if you said you need to get to know eachother better dont be asking whether she has had sex. it will really freak her out. she obviously likes you so just be yourself and i hope it works out.

[johnnyd]

If the girl asked you out, then she obviously likes your personality, shy or not. Concerning your experience at dating, no guy is comfortable when he first starts out. You can only gain confidence by experience, and the more you hang out with this girl, the more comfortable you will be while with her. So I would recommend going for it, but don't bring up sex. Wait a little while first.

[Gandalf]

[-][-]I am going to ask her to meet up with me this weekend[/-][/-]



Thanks guy's I plucked up the courage to ask her (A little help from Facebook) to meet up with me to we can at least talk properly. Just waiting for a response.

[jjsmitty]

Just take your time, no need to be pressurised into doing anything you arent comfortable with. There's plenty of time to figure out things sexually later, just make sure you are completely comfortable eith eachother first.

[Gandalf]

I just had to tell someone. We are officially going out since after talking for a while (Now I don't feel awkward!) I asked her out properly.
She accepted. I feel sick now. :D

This is completely out of character for me. SPONTANEOUS :heart:
Sorry for spamming.