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jjsmitty
May 7th, 2012, 04:48 PM
Me and my Boyfriend have been together for around 2 years, he was my school crush and the guy that I first confessed by bisexuality to and he came out to me in the next sentence as bi aswell. Since then we hit it off, my ideal partner, strong enough to be a man, straight acting with that Greek charm, but sensitive and a great bottom :D
Sometimes we go to swinger type nights where we meet other couples and allow eachother to express the other side of our bisexuality, which is fine. These are meant to be one night stands which are just forgotten about and we both enjoy them
But I recently found out he had carried on with a girl for another 3 months after the one night stand, which really upset me. He apologised alot, says he will never do it again etc etc. But i'm worried to trust him again, I mean I practically kicked him out of bed last night and havent spoken to him since. I'm worried that the one person I truly love and have confessed all to could leave me, but i'm equally worried about his commitment. I still love him.
What would VT do? Thanks guys and gals for your help.

CMEBACH
May 9th, 2012, 11:56 PM
As a guy whose in a similar situation...
Give him another chance. If he's truly sorry about everything he won't mess around and you'll get to be happy, and if he does mess around again then he's the one who's missing out. Just go for if you love him and he loves you it'll work out.