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[billybigfish]

ok, i like this dude who is meant to be my bestie, but since i told him i like him, im not sure if hes gunna start not wanting me as a friend, he said hes ok with it, but im not sure if he actually is, ive invited him over so we can talk about it, what shall i say, and what do you think he will say, i really wanna get this over with, please help me!!!??

[Giles]

We can't predict what he's going to say or what he's going to feel. You also failed to mention whether he's gay, straight, bi etc. which is a pretty vital piece of information.

[Short Circuit]

Stop worrying first of all, you stated he said he is ok with it. Just be yourself, and talk about what you used to talk about before you told him your feelings. But dont try chatting him up or flirting with him, he might be uncomfortable with it, then you will loose him as a friend.

[billybigfish]

We can't predict what he's going to say or what he's going to feel. You also failed to mention whether he's gay, straight, bi etc. which is a pretty vital piece of information. yeah hes strait

Stop worrying first of all, you stated he said he is ok with it. Just be yourself, and talk about what you used to talk about before you told him your feelings. But dont try chatting him up or flirting with him, he might be uncomfortable with it, then you will loose him as a friend.

ok thanks for the help

Please don't double post use the edit button to edit your original post -FullyAlive

[FullyAlive]

Puberty for boys :arrow2: Relationships & Dating

[Koffing]

Just do what you guys like to do together and if you brings up the topic tell him that you are still the same person as before. Good luck mate ;)

[itsjustme9000]

just tell him don't worry

[Heatbomb21]

You kinda told him already...I don't think the invitation was really necessary...

If he said he's fine with it, that's okay, but if he acts different towards you in a negative way, then that's when you need to talk to him.

If he's a friend, he shouldn't hate you because he knows your gay/bi/etc. simple as that.


Hope I helped.

[Skyhawk]

I don't see why you would want to invite him over to talk about it so soon, there aren't any issues, right? No issues = no reason to invite

So, you "like" this guy? You said he's straight, no way anything involving liking more than a best friend is going to happen.

[Giles]

yeah hes strait

I'd suggest backing off then. If he's straight then he's not going to be interested in a guy.

[billybigfish]

I'd suggest backing off then. If he's straight then he's not going to be interested in a guy.

I don't see why you would want to invite him over to talk about it so soon, there aren't any issues, right? No issues = no reason to invite

So, you "like" this guy? You said he's straight, no way anything involving liking more than a best friend is going to happen.

i dont want him to like me, i just want to tell him my feelings, im just worried that if someone goes on his fb, they'll see what we've been chatting about

[Giles]

i dont want him to like me, i just want to tell him my feelings, im just worried that if someone goes on his fb, they'll see what we've been chatting about

My apologies, I misread your question.

I think that the best thing you could do is discuss it in person, away from the eyes of other people. Being in private might make him be more honest with you than if it's all over Facebook for people to see. Perhaps deleting anything strange from Facebook is a good idea for the future.

[Smeagol]

Good luck, I know that this must be a tough situation.