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Gannon
May 5th, 2012, 09:49 PM
I don't even know if i even have a sexuality, for a long time i thought i was gay, then i thought i was bisexual, after that i thought i was straight, and now i'm just confused. I've had relationships with girls and boys. I don't know what my sexuality is. I'm so confused i need some guidance and a little help.

little death
May 5th, 2012, 09:56 PM
If your not sure just be bi till you are sure. If you dont know then your probbly bi. I was bi for a long time till i became gay.

johnnyd
May 6th, 2012, 02:10 PM
Nobody on this site can give you the help that you think you need. You need to just think with yourself about your past relationships and decide what makes you happiest. If you enjoyed a relationship with a girl but not so much with the guy, you may be straight, and vice-versa could be gay. Or, you may like both equally, meaning bi. At any rate, none of these outcomes are in any way bad. You just have to learn to accept yourself for your preferences and not care what others say or think.

Archerer2012
May 10th, 2012, 01:44 PM
Bro I went through the exact same thing you did and are going to and trust me it's not easy. The best thing to do is just beyond self, and eventually you'll be able to see what's u are. Either way it doesn't really matter, but just trust in yourself:)

jjsmitty
May 11th, 2012, 03:27 PM
A good way to figure this out is think of yourself 10/20 years in the future, what sex do you picture yourself with?
If, like me, you can easily picture yourself with both sexes then i'd say you were bi. If you can't imagine yourself with individual sexes then you are either gay or straight.
But this is just my opinion, i'm not sure how old you are but if you're under 16 i'd say you've got years to figure this shit out, and its not easy any way you look at it.

Lovemeorleaveme
May 20th, 2012, 04:55 PM
Take a deep breath and think deeply imagine your self with a guy how do you feel about that, does it feel right, do the same thing again but this time imagine yourself with a girl.