Sleepover

[trail.t.trail]

So my best friend and me often have sleepovers. We generally sleep on the same bed and wear either a t-shirt and boxers or pyjamas. The thing is, every time we have a sleepover, it gets a little more sexual. Well, don't get me wrong here. We are far from anything properly sexual but it gets more comfortable. I'm awake through all of this. He seems like he's asleep but certain things make me unsure of this. The first time, nothing really happened, he stayed on his side of the bed, and I stayed on mine. The second time, my legs touched his. The third time, he let his blanket come loose, and he sort of pressed his butt against my body. The fourth and most recent time, we both slept without a blanket (the air-conditioning wasn't working) and stayed towards the centre of the bed. He was asleep through all of this (actually I'm not to sure of that) but basically while he was 'asleep' he was really free with his legs and arms. He basically ended up spooning a lot and I noticed he had a boner most of the time. During the night another time, I woke up to find him with his legs bent and on top of mine, sleeping on his stomach. I like it when we sleep close, so I moved a little closer in. He shifted so that he shoved his fully erect penis into my hand. Also another time during the same night, I put my hand on his stomach, and he moved so that it was touching his still flaccid penis which then slowly became erect.
Don't misunderstand me. I don't want it to stop. In fact I like it and want to go further. But I don't know how to bring it up, I don't want to ruin the relationship and I don't know if he's even open to experimentation. What are your thoughts?

[Lyra Heartstrings]

Since you obviously are okay with it, I would just wait until he takes it, to what you consider, "too far". Once he does that, ask him about it.

[OregonStateDude]

It sounds like he is using this "sharing the bed" as an excuse to experiment. Which is fine, if you are both okay with that. The best bet is to talk to him about it if things get any more interesting than they already are.

My best friend and I share his bed when I do a sleepover. But we never touch each other when we do that. Yes, we do experiment, but we agreed that bedtime is not the proper time for that. I love my best friend like a brother and I don't want things to get weird between us.

[pankakeman]

Well, I nice did a fair big project on sleep stage and what the stages of sleep mean.

http://psychology.about.com/od/statesofconsciousness/a/SleepStages.htm


It really depends on the pace if his heart, sudden movements that would indicate he's awake and other signs that do actually relate to what you described.

Read about the link and see what time of the night it actually was. Also notice wheter he snores less with you depending from when he normally does sleep. This could indicate that he's actually awake pretending.

If he measures up with most, or almost all of these, then he's probably awake and you should maybe ask if he's awake then and there, or after you guys wake up, ask what time he went to sleep. He'll most likely get where ur coming from if you give out these sort of positive hints, and could even lead to u guys going further.


Hope I helped! :)

(I'm in like the same kind f position at this very mOment with a friend, lol, I wonder what ELSE will happen :D)

[MisterAndrews]

To be honest I think he's giving you hints already. I wouldn't bother talking to him; I'd just go with the flow.

[Luke91]

If you like it and it sounds like he likes it, then go with it.

[Magenta]

This is not the place to ask how to experiment with friends. Please re-read P101 rules. :locked: