Problem

[Greyson]

I am a little scared of going into high school, because I have never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl, and my penis is only about 4.5 in erect. I am not sure what I should do in high school, can anyone here help me out with this? Sorry if this isn't puberty related.

[Cap'nCrunch]

What should you do in high school?

You should find a group of friends interested in similar things, be friendly, get involved in a sport, and get decent grades. Everything else will follow if you just do your best.

[MoveAlong]

Man, just let it hang out (not your dick)
Your penis is fine, just an early bloomer...a girl shouldn't care about that anyway :confused:
As far as a girlfriend, I dunno how you could get one in the summer...you'll just be a little inexperienced in high school. Being in high school is sometimes overwhelming...just do well in school with grades and get into clubs, have a circle of friends and then soon you'll get yourself a girlfriend. Just push through

I agree with Cap'nCrunch

[Greyson]

Thanks, that is great advice. I will keep that in mind. Thanks again!

[Melchi0r]

Not having a girlfriend, never kissing a girl, and the size of your penis have no affect on your high school life. Just make some new friends, and don't push yourself into a relationship. Just because everyone else has girlfriends doesn't mean you have to. I fell into this trap in middle school. It was hell.

[MoveAlong]

Not having a girlfriend, never kissing a girl, and the size of your penis have no affect on your high school life. Just make some new friends, and don't push yourself into a relationship. Just because everyone else has girlfriends doesn't mean you have to. I fell into this trap in middle school. It was hell.

I agree with this too - this is the other side

[Antares]

well im alot similar to you and im kinda nervous too so ill see how it goes in 2 months. dont worry YOUR NOT ALONE!

[Greyson]

well im alot similar to you and im kinda nervous too so ill see how it goes in 2 months. dont worry YOUR NOT ALONE!

Ah, that makes me feel better. :D

[JG3]

i was the same when i first started, but you know what, NOTHING bad has happened to me in my 3 years in high school. Just keep your values close and stick with good people. The years will fly.

[Serenity]

I had kind of the same situation coming into high school [except I'm a girl] and I was just starting to feel rather overwhelmed by peer pressure and such- which had never really happened before. So here's what I did to make sure I would make the best out of freshman year and not fall into the trap that seems to be devouring our generation: I got out a notebook and I wrote down promises to myself- things I wouldn't do, and things I would do, such as not drinking, smoking, or having sex, and showing people I love that I do, keeping my goals [like college] in mind at all times, and staying focused in school.

Obviously I'm not perfect and needless to say I've deviated here and there- but nothing extreme. I still keep my morals today and I'm going into Junior year. Just last week after my second drum corps competition [we won both] a lot of people were drinking in celebration. A couple of people openly asked if I was going to, as they did the competition before. I stuck to water, despite my absolute euphoria.

I really do believe that if you just sit down, decide what YOU want for YOU, and write it down, it will help you keep those promises to yourself. In the opening statement I wrote, "I do solemnly make the following promises to myself, which, besides those made to God Almighty, I hold most sacred above all else" I still believe that today- the promises you make to yourself are the most important you could ever make and are the most crucial to keep, because those decisions are the reflections of you as a person and how you live your life. And after all, what's more important than that?

[Glasgow]

Don't worry about it man. I take it you are around 13-14 years old. Not everyone your age has a massive penis with 20 girlfriends. Infact its quite good that you havent had a girlfriend because middle school relationships are pointless. Just wait and have a great time in highschool and you will eventually get a girlfriend and your penis will grow :D

[link247]

I hadn't had a girlfriend before high school. It didn't stop me from having a great time my first year. Just don't worry about things like that, and just focus on having a great time in high school and the rest will come to you.

[CryingEye666]

I am a little scared of going into high school, because I have never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl, and my penis is only about 4.5 in erect. I am not sure what I should do in high school, can anyone here help me out with this? Sorry if this isn't puberty related.

im in highschool! (going to 12th grade)
and i never had a girlfriend
Gahhhhh

[Camazotz]

Well, in 4 years, youre done. You can either(pick C)

A. Get excellent grades, be a nerd, but get a GREAT job.
B. Just make friends, slack off, and be popular, but get a pretty bad job.
C. Somewhere in between

[lizard]

Dude trust me, highschool is fucking awesome!
If a girl complains about your dick size then stay away from the slut.
Make good friends.
Do your best on classes.
You'll be fine.
Middleschool IMO is ALOT tougher and worse than highschool.

[Antares]

I had kind of the same situation coming into high school [except I'm a girl] and I was just starting to feel rather overwhelmed by peer pressure and such- which had never really happened before. So here's what I did to make sure I would make the best out of freshman year and not fall into the trap that seems to be devouring our generation: I got out a notebook and I wrote down promises to myself- things I wouldn't do, and things I would do, such as not drinking, smoking, or having sex, and showing people I love that I do, keeping my goals [like college] in mind at all times, and staying focused in school.

Obviously I'm not perfect and needless to say I've deviated here and there- but nothing extreme. I still keep my morals today and I'm going into Junior year. Just last week after my second drum corps competition [we won both] a lot of people were drinking in celebration. A couple of people openly asked if I was going to, as they did the competition before. I stuck to water, despite my absolute euphoria.

I really do believe that if you just sit down, decide what YOU want for YOU, and write it down, it will help you keep those promises to yourself. In the opening statement I wrote, "I do solemnly make the following promises to myself, which, besides those made to God Almighty, I hold most sacred above all else" I still believe that today- the promises you make to yourself are the most important you could ever make and are the most crucial to keep, because those decisions are the reflections of you as a person and how you live your life. And after all, what's more important than that?

great advice. and i think that works becuase one of my middle school teachers said she did the same thing and shes AWESOME!

Don't worry about it man. I take it you are around 13-14 years old. Not everyone your age has a massive penis with 20 girlfriends. Infact its quite good that you havent had a girlfriend because middle school relationships are pointless. Just wait and have a great time in highschool and you will eventually get a girlfriend and your penis will grow :D
I totally agree that MS relationships are POINTLESS. Ive seen a girl go through like 8 bfs last year and i lauged at every single one.

[Gumleaf]

like some of the others have said, its not uncommon not to have a gf before high school. i didn't, but now i do, and that all happened through friends from school. the best suggestion i can give you is try to find many friends and get involved in outer school activities with them.

[Greyson]

Orchdork, the quote you gave me in the extremely long post was great, thanks. Lepper, yes I am 14. Although one problem with what you said. Everyone I know has had 20 girlfriends. Thanks, to everyone else who helped me out here.

[Antares]

no probs
glad to help
now i have to go soak my ankles in cold water
and people that i know has a ton of gfs and everytime they breakup i say "told ya so"