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GodFire64
May 3rd, 2012, 07:35 PM
I just recently found out a good friend of mine was gay, and now he’s hitting on me, what should I do. :what::what:

RCT109
May 3rd, 2012, 08:02 PM
Tell him you don't like him in any other way than a friend.
Thats what I would do

LBYRDMAN10
May 3rd, 2012, 08:29 PM
Depends, do u feel anything towards him or do u want to just stay friends I know you said you were strait but u still might have feelings for him.... :)

Drew5
May 3rd, 2012, 08:31 PM
How is he hitting on you

therunaway
May 3rd, 2012, 08:36 PM
Just come out and say it, hey man you do know were just friends right? and then if he spazzes out then just explain you're interested in women not men. don't apologize, as you did nothing wrong.

JakeRS
May 4th, 2012, 04:07 AM
Just say that you don't like guys and that's it,that's what i would to at least.

Efflorescence
May 4th, 2012, 07:56 AM
You can tell him: 'I'm not gay and there's nothing you can do about it'.

Stronger
May 4th, 2012, 08:49 AM
Just come out and say it, hey man you do know were just friends right? and then if he spazzes out then just explain you're interested in women not men. don't apologize, as you did nothing wrong.

This is probably the best answer here, just tell him easy, don't get mad or anything, and just tell him the straight up truth, that your into women and not men, I hope you understand etc.

Short Circuit
May 4th, 2012, 09:02 AM
Talk to him privately, set the boundries, and ask him to respect them as you will. There is no need to loose a good friend, just because you have found out he is gay

audiophile5
May 4th, 2012, 03:15 PM
Tell him that you don't feel comfortable with him hitting on you, and you want just to be friends..

Kanindrum
May 4th, 2012, 09:10 PM
Definitely be nice about it. You guys should still be friends regardless of the other person. Just because that's a factor of him, shouldn't mean everything else changes. Just be honest, it's all you can do.

jjsmitty
May 6th, 2012, 04:16 PM
Just set him straight (no pun intended), tell him how you feel. I.e I want us to just be friends, tell him nicely that you are just not interested and you just like women not men.

itsjustme9000
May 6th, 2012, 04:20 PM
hint at him that you just want to be friends and thats it. If he tells you then tell him just friends

irishguy123
May 6th, 2012, 04:24 PM
Simply be honest, dont be hurtful but be honest

LuckyEddy
May 7th, 2012, 12:17 AM
Tell em stop being on the bullshit. It's not like that.

canadaski
May 7th, 2012, 12:21 AM
I just recently found out a good friend of mine was gay, and now he’s hitting on me, what should I do. :what::what:

That depends, what do you mean by hitting on you?