Don't know what to think

[xDILLIGAFx]

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[Stronger]

Well basically for the past four or five months I felt like I had finally come to grips with my sexuality...or so I thought. I considered myself Bisexual, but honestly deep down I think I'm gay, I've always loved guys that's for sure, honestly after reading countless threads on here it feels as if identifying myself as Bisexual adds a sense of more normality, which is really sad to say because although it shouldn't (and I can only speak for where I live, being heterosexual is viewed as normal) from my experiences of other people who are Gay or Bisexual, they were seen as outcasts or different or just plain out just not normal, which hardly gave me any confidence, or even self respect. I thought that If I came out I would be treated as an outcast, different etc, I've been with guys and it feels normal to me...just feels like that's how it should be, if that makes sense? But I've never been with a girl, nor have I felt the urge to to be honest, being identified as Gay would not one bit bother me whatsoever, but it's people's reactions that I'm worried about.
There's never been a more confusing time in my life than how i feel now :/

In my honest opinion you seem like you could be gay, but is it that important to lable yourself? Even if you come to terms with being gay, you don't have to go out and tell everyone, take your time; do it with confidence. But who knows, maybe those you tell, could be bi or gay or just understand you. By other people do you mean people in person or over the internet? You shouldn't let people's actons let that bother you, who cares what they think, as long as your happy, thats all that counts.

[xDILLIGAFx]

In my honest opinion you seem like you could be gay, but is it that important to lable yourself? Even if you come to terms with being gay, you don't have to go out and tell everyone, take your time; do it with confidence. But who knows, maybe those you tell, could be bi or gay or just understand you. By other people do you mean people in person or over the internet? You shouldn't let people's actons let that bother you, who cares what they think, as long as your happy, thats all that counts.

I get what you mean about the labeling thing, I've told a good friend before that I was Bi, stil feeling like I do just now, but he's a really good friend and I just had to say something, but as it turns out he was Gay, so we ended up fooling around for a while. By other people I just mean in general like friends, family etc, I think because he was gay, it might have given a false perception of how people would react kinda

[Stronger]

I get what you mean about the labeling thing, I've told a good friend before that I was Bi, stil feeling like I do just now, but he's a really good friend and I just had to say something, but as it turns out he was Gay, so we ended up fooling around for a while. By other people I just mean in general like friends, family etc, I think because he was gay, it might have given a false perception of how people would react kinda

Maybe talk to your family or friends about sexuality, try and get their views on the whole thing, maybe that will help you come up to them.

[Drew5]

I thought you were a girl bc of ur pic lol

Ur not ready to come out.. And that's fine.

[xDILLIGAFx]

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[Drew5]

Well, are you out as bi rt now?

[Skyhawk]

Here's a tip: Don't worry about labels, do you really need to label yourself to feel like you "fit in"?

Don't drive yourself crazy with labels, it's not fun. Who really cares anyway? You're you. :)

[Levi scott]

Well are you emotionally attracted to women? Im assuming that you arnt really phsically since you said you dont really feel an urge to be. My guess is that you are but your just not ready exactly be "labled" it yet. Just take your time finding youself is not an easy thing to do. Just try to have someone you can always talk to things about it helps a ton. Hope i helped!

[xDILLIGAFx]

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[Levi scott]

Well then all sounds good! Just go at your own pace and just be you! You can do as you please when your ready to do so good sir.

[Smeagol]

Good luck :hug:

[xDILLIGAFx]

Thanks Guys! :D

[pineinchneis]

Imho the whole labelling thing isn't hugely important. Tbf it can help yourself but also the boundaries between gay and bi can often be blurred which doesn't really helped can be even more confusing. But i guess it doesn't really matter what others think as long as you're happy