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mrsarett
May 3rd, 2012, 12:43 AM
i am a 14 y/o male. whenever this girl passes through my line of sight I get a warm feeling inside.
One night I had a dream about her. it closely resembled the love scenes from the hunger games trilogy. We would play around in the meadow holding hands and my foot wold snag on a rose. I'd trip and we both go down. we land with her on top of me and we both slowly lean in for a kiss. We kiss for hours and then I wake up and the dream shatters away.
however, this girl is in a serious relationship. on top of that, her bf has lukhemia and that just pulls them closer together
every time I see her now , I have to bite my lip to stop myself from blurting out the 3 words that could ruin our friendship
any advice?

johnnyd
May 3rd, 2012, 01:10 AM
First of all, if you are attracted to this girl you probably aren't gay, although you may bi or whatever else. Truthfully though, it doesn't matter. From what you've said, at this point it seems that she is at a point where she would be unlikely to go out with you. Instead, why don't you try to get to know other girls and try to forget about your crush. From the description of your dream, it sounds like you're fairly romantic, and girls truly dig that. Just wait and your crush will pass, especially if you find another girl you like more.

marcorar
May 3rd, 2012, 05:39 AM
I think it's better to be just friends for now and support what she and her boyfriend are currently going through. It's always good to be there for the people you love. :) Good luck bro!

XxAssasiNxX
May 3rd, 2012, 08:28 AM
Were like pratictlybthe same. everytime i like a girl i have theese weird dreams and i fantasise about a love story or something like that betwen us. sometimes a sad story and sometimes i dream about having sex..i know its creepy even i admit it. also ur not gay probaly you have these dreams because u know youll probally wont get her or anything. that happens to me?? but if shes in a relasion ship just chillax for a while..

mrsarett
June 15th, 2012, 12:14 AM
Thanks guys