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cra1g
May 2nd, 2012, 10:29 PM
Alright so i have been dating this girl for 6 months and i am completely inlove with her. Im 15 and shes 15 and im her first boyfriend and kiss. I think she loves me too but i dont want to freak her out. She is almost completely innocent. She is absolutely amazing and the most serious girlfriend ive ever had and i dont want her to break up with me, it would destroy me. We have been through a lot together this year. One of our greatest friends died in a car accident and we are still pretty broken up about it. So is it too early for me to tell her i love her? And are we too young to be saying it?

Mortal Coil
May 2nd, 2012, 10:39 PM
Go ahead! I don't think that any couple in history has ever broken up because one person said "I love you" to the other once.
Say it, but don't go overboard cause she may think you're either clingy or trying to hide something.
:hug:

boonsim
May 2nd, 2012, 10:46 PM
It's not a big deal. Besides, why not use a replacement set of three words?

You're the best!
We are perfect!
We're together forever!
Let's make out!
Want some food? (if someone said this to me, I'd marry them <3)

Aves
May 2nd, 2012, 11:55 PM
It's not that big of a deal. It's how you feel, and if you can't say those three words to her without her freaking out, it's probably a bad thing. You said you've been together for 6 months, and if you can't say "I love you" yet without one or the other freaking out (in a negative way), you two have some thinking to do.

For both of my relationships it came very natural to us. It was no more than a week before we said "I love you" to each other.

johnnyd
May 3rd, 2012, 01:16 AM
I agree with evil.angel and gunter. If you truly feel that way, go ahead and tell her. At your age, it would have the emotional significance without so much of the strong commitment that sometimes comes with it. However, I would agree that you shouldn't push it on her or go overboard, less she freak out, but from your description, I doubt she would.

Short Circuit
May 3rd, 2012, 01:57 AM
Why not just wisper it in her ear after you have kissed her? Those 3 little words are actually easy to say, and after 6 months, you should have said them already

cra1g
May 3rd, 2012, 04:04 PM
Thanks its just that im her first boyfriend and she is like completely innocent but this really helped get my confidence up.:D