View Full Version : I'm not interested in anyone, and it feels weird.
Buranri
May 1st, 2012, 09:22 PM
For the first time in... I don't even remember how long, I'm not interested in anyone. There's no one I want to ask out. Hell, there isn't even anyone I really talk to outside of school, since I usually am just talking to whoever I like at the time.
Honestly? It sucks. A lot. It's been 2 months since my girlfriend and I broke up, and in that time there hasn't been one person I'm even kind of interested in.
Am I just doing it wrong? Looking in the wrong places? I'm the only one in my group not in a relationship and it's awful, going to school every day and seeing everyone in their various couples. Yeah yeah, I know, I shouldn't base what I want to do off my friends. That doesn't change the fact that I really want to find someone I like again, and it also doesn't change the fact that spending every day third wheeling is terrible.
Weeping_Angel
May 1st, 2012, 09:24 PM
For the first time in... I don't even remember how long, I'm not interested in anyone. There's no one I want to ask out. Hell, there isn't even anyone I really talk to outside of school, since I usually am just talking to whoever I like at the time.
Honestly? It sucks. A lot. It's been 2 months since my girlfriend and I broke up, and in that time there hasn't been one person I'm even kind of interested in.
Am I just doing it wrong? Looking in the wrong places? I'm the only one in my group not in a relationship and it's awful, going to school every day and seeing everyone in their various couples. Yeah yeah, I know, I shouldn't base what I want to do off my friends. That doesn't change the fact that I really want to find someone I like again, and it also doesn't change the fact that spending every day third wheeling is terrible.
Don't worry. You aren't the only one. I also have not been interested in anyone for the longest time. Like since last year. You are normal, and it's Ok.
botwa
May 2nd, 2012, 07:24 AM
It's the normal situation I guess.
I wonder why almost everybody is convinced that they need to date anybody constantly.
being alone is fine. people need to learn how it feels, it's better than dating just anybody just not to be alone. that's creepy.
Mortal Coil
May 2nd, 2012, 07:44 AM
It happens. Seriously, don't let it get you down. I haven't been interested in anyone for as long as I can remember, and yes it sucks seeing all these couples even when you don't have a particular person you want to be with, but you need to stop thinking of it as third wheeling and think of it as being AVAILABLE.
madea rocks
May 2nd, 2012, 01:58 PM
Take ur time... youll find the right one
Smeagol
May 2nd, 2012, 02:54 PM
Well, it takes time to find somebody. In time, you will find that special person.
Kanindrum
May 2nd, 2012, 02:58 PM
I think a lot of people have this feeling one time or another. Could be that you're just ready for a true real person to be with... don't want anyone less than that.
Aves
May 2nd, 2012, 05:43 PM
This is normal, trust me. You don't always have to be interested in somebody, in fact, that'd probably be a bad thing. Down time between who you like is a good thing.
Moai
May 2nd, 2012, 08:25 PM
I felt that way for almost a year, it sucks but at least you don't ever have to worry about relationship troubles and spending money on them. If you really want to meet someone, go out and do some social clubs or something, but don't force yourself to like someone.
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