does this mean im sexally attracted to men??

[ChRiS PiTMaN ...]

im 13 and i watch gay porn often...i dont like watching actual gay porn with gay guys i just watch stright guys...i sometimes masturbate to it and i know its probly just hormones but what if i actually turn gay?? i also have a gf

[thinblueline]

does not mean you're gay. a lot of straight guys like jerking off to gay porn or guys. I wouldn't worry about it.

[Stryker125]

You're fine dude. You're 13, so this is probably just your hormones being all crazy...doesn't mean you're gay..doesn't mean you're anything actually....except horny.

[Coolboi]

at 13 it's normal to like gay or guy porn it's puberty at it's best . you well see as you get older what you may like st8,gay or bi . good luck

[Mitcheeell]

i watch gay porn... nothing wrong with that

[Giles]

A lot of people watch porn that they may not expect themselves to be interested or aroused by. For example; even when I was certain that I was gay, I still watched 'straight' porn every now and again. The same way that a few of my straight friends have told me that they've glanced at gay porn before - it really doesn't matter and there's nothing to be worried about it 'turning you gay', sexuality doesn't really work like that. You are what you are and there's very little you can do about it.

Edit: Also, there's nothing wrong with being gay anyway. It's not as much of a taboo as it used to be, in the UK at least, and the likelihood of there being another gay/bi guy in your school or town is incredibly high. If it does turn out that you think you're gay or bi then you need to adapt and behave accordingly, for you this might not mean any changes in your life.

[MisterAndrews]

If it does turn out that you think you're gay or bi then you need to adapt and behave accordingly, for you this might not mean any changes in your life.

In what way do you have to change your behaviour? Surely that's pandering to the prejudice?

[jjsmitty]

Just because you are curious doesnt make you gay. You are only 13, plenty of time to make those decisions later, just watch what you like, no need to judge yourself or put yourself into a category.

[Giles]

In what way do you have to change your behaviour? Surely that's pandering to the prejudice?

Possibly to an extent. But what I meant was that if he's 'pretending' to be straight at the minute then he may well be trying to act more masculine than he really is. If he comes to terms with the fact that he's gay/bi, if he actually is either, then putting on an act of masculinity is just silly.

[jamesscott]

It could be hormones and it is sex so its a turn on or you could be bi

[Drew5]

im 13 and i watch gay porn often...i dont like watching actual gay porn with gay guys i just watch stright guys...i sometimes masturbate to it and i know its probly just hormones but what if i actually turn gay?? i also have a gf

Maybe

[Midland]

At your age you're probably interested in anything that can be described with the word sex. I wouldn't worry about. Along with most people I believe that your sexuality is given to you not chosen, so there's no risk of turning gay, only exposing yourself as gay, if in fact you are.

[Punisher6797]

Your not gay, your just interested.

[funinthesun]

perfectly fine. a lot of guys do