Pansexuality (???)

[Wiltedrose2394]

So, for a brief period in my life, I identified myself as bisexual. Then I went through a period of being torn because I didn't really care about my sexuality at all.
Now idk what I am. I started identifying as pansexual a few months ago; but it's so weird how I really feel. It's almost like, I would try anything and be open to anything. No matter who you are or what gender you are, I might be interested if you're interested in me. The problem is, when I try to connect with people in real life, I don't find then attractive. I have my fantasies and desires, and I have dreams of an ultimate sexual experience. But when it comes to dating, or even just socializing, I feel nothing.

So is it really pansexuality, or am I just a freak who can't ever be in a relationship? Lol

[TheRock]

Phew I thought you were attracted to actual pans, that would've been awkward.

You need to work it out for yourself, some people go through phases but only you can work out what it is you want/attracted to.

[StoppingTime]

It's up to you to decide that.
I don't think you need to label yourself just yet. You don't seem to be quite sure of your sexuality, and at your age, that's fine.
I don't think you're a freak, that's for sure. Whether you have "poor people skills" I don't know.

It may be pansexuality, if you think that's right. If you could see yourself dating anyone, regardless of what they think then yes, there's a chance.

[whiteyrhys]

As others have said , don't think of yourself as someone who can't hold down a relationship. I have thought in the past when I never seemed to get a relationship that I wasn't worthy of one , but it turns out that I just never let guys knew I was interested in them enough.

You've got a while to work things out, don't be in such a rush :)!