sex with best friend?

[hscott629]

okay, im a guy and my best friend is a girl :L she goes to a girls school, and, despite being reasonably good looking, she is determind that she will never get a boy. So recently, she began hinting, before actually asking if i wanted to loose the Big V with her... I dont mind doing it with her, but im more worried about what will happen with our friendship, cause its really important to me

any thoughts appreciated
thanks :D

[spaz]

believe it or not im in the exact same situation xD well except she isnt a virgin.... but i think it would be ok, the only way it would hurt your friendship is if you guys let it. Try talking to her and make sure she is really sure about it. AND WEAR A CONDOM IF YOU GUYS DO IT xD

[Rayquaza]

How old are you?
How long have you known her and
How serious is she?

If you've known her for a long time, it's something I wouldn't risk. Losing your viginity isn't something you should just "do" for the fun of it. Think seriously about it.

[hscott629]

How old are you?
How long have you known her and
How serious is she?

If you've known her for a long time, it's something I wouldn't risk. Losing your viginity isn't something you should just "do" for the fun of it. Think seriously about it.

im 15, she's 14, bout 3 months younger
3/4 years?
she's really quite serious about it - much more than me

[Clawhammer]

Don't do it, it'll only complicate things. These things never work out well. Just wait for the right time. And you'll know when it's the right time, the right person, and the right circumstances.

[Rayquaza]

im 15, she's 14, bout 3 months younger
3/4 years?
she's really quite serious about it - much more than me


At that age, doing something like this isn't really appropriate unless you love each other, but also since you have many years to find someone, and also since you've known her for quite long now, it will just make things bad.

[Burton Guster]

Thats up to you but make sure you wear a condom if u do decide to have sex.

[Thanatos]

It is your choice, I would personally recommend waiting a bit longer, however if you feel that your ready go ahead. Sexual relations really dont have to ruin a friendship, I have a couple friends I've done different extents of things with and we get along perfectly fine on a normal day to day basis.

[Wayne92]

What is her reason for wanting to lose it and why you?

According to how this sounds, she may want to sleep with you out of desperation. She may believe that you are the only one who would do it, because she doesn't think highly of herself for some reason. I would really talk to her first and see where her head is at. Now, out of the event that she is thinking clearly and has some sort of feelings for you or thinks it something you two should do or something along those lines. Then it is up to you, I know people who gave their virginity to the best friend and it actually strengthened their relationship because their isn't that issue of doing it with someone that you later regret doing it with for whatever reason. So, talk to her then choose for yourself, just make sure she knows what she means to you and what you think about her. She may just need a confidence boost.

[badboy96]

[QUOTE=hscott629;1710548]okay, im a guy and my best friend is a girl :L she goes to a girls school, and, despite being reasonably good looking, she is determind that she will never get a boy. So recently, she began hinting, before actually asking if i wanted to loose the Big V with her... I dont mind doing it with her, but im more worried about what will happen with our friendship, cause its really important to me

any thoughts appreciated
thanks

if you to are that close it soudent reak it but be cerful

[daniel1009]

Talk about it and, If you guys do end up doing it make sure you use a condom

[SydRoosters]

If I ever got a chance like this, I'd take it. You're both friendly with each other and it seems like you two are a big part of each others lives. Like Wayne92 said before, you don't want to end up losing your virginity to someone you regret doing it with. Also, if it goes well, you may end up having sex more often. How good is that!

If you end up doing this, DO NOT end up regretting it. At the time, you chose to do it. If it was good enough for you then, it should be good enough for you always.

[Wayne92]

It all comes down to the relationship and what you are comfortable with. Good luck.

[audiophile5]

If the friendship means that much to you, you should not do it. It will get akward between you two if you decide to stay as friends only..

[mick4241]

if your a virgin i think this would be a great time to have sex with her, evenif your not, it wll be a great experiance.

[Josie]

Go for it if its what you want.

[EvilB]

Well it can only make u closer!

[joshduder]

It depend on how u take it later on...

[PyChE36]

If it really maters to you then ... :| ... go for it. ;)

[RAGE DJ]

Just be friends with benefits

[Syam]

It'll turn out like Friends With Benefits. I wouldn't do it, but it's up to you.

[lilygirl16]

I did it with my best friend and we are fine. We are still besties but we have special benefits. It works if you let it.

[PinkFloyd]

Well My gf Mariah and me were best friends before we began our bf gf thing. What sparked it belive it or not was not full out sex but her giving me a hand job. We have been togetheer for a good year and half now. My advise is to go for it. Just please, wear a fuckin condom.