Need help!

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

Hey well I'm posting this thread because I wanna tell my best friend I'm bisexual. He is literally playing on my Xbox as I am writing this. I don't wanna experiment with him or anything I just want him to know how I am. I am 60-70% sure he'll be accepting. Have any of you guys got any tips on how to tell him. He also is round my house like everyday. If you have any other questions let me know, if not all help would be appreciated. Thanks! :)

[SamB]

If you feel that you are ready to tell him then do it... just don't be like "Guess what... I'm bi" sort of lead into it and before you tell him make him promise not to tell anyone what you have told him.

[Dimitri]

I would just say be honest, let him...or like,hmmmm....


Hey man, you know I trust you a lot and there is something I feel I need to tell you...

I did something similar to that with one of my best friends...he took it very well.

[Short Circuit]

Test the water with his reactions to gay and bi people first, (do you know if any of your school friends are gay or bi?) see what he thinks about them, then if he is ok with that subject, just come out and tell him.

[whiteyrhys]

When I came out to my three best friends - I dropped hints the whole night and put my arm around two of them on the bed while the other was playing the Wii (This wasn't too strange as we have a really strong 'bromance' bond) but this time I let my hands drop to their back and tickled one of them. Amongst that and other things it eventually led me to telling them.

When we all got ready to go to watch a film on the bed I said to them I had something I wanted to tell them...and I just told them they didn't believe me at first just because of the way I present myself in society but eventually they did and didn't seem bothered in the slightest. They all hugged me after that which was a bit of a tear jerker but yeah :$

Just take your time and be yourself! Think about how it will affect your and his relationship.

[loganbenson]

If he is your best friend than you should tell him :/

[Rashard1997]

Just tell him. If he is your friend he wont flip out.

[ExhibitG]

I was nervous to come out to my best friend but I finally did and I think we are closer because of it, he totally accepts it so I'd just go for it :)

[marchingsaxophone]

If you feel that you are ready to tell him then do it... just don't be like "Guess what... I'm bi" sort of lead into it and before you tell him make him promise not to tell anyone what you have told him.

That's kind of what I did when I came out as gay to my best friend start talking and slowly build into telling him and before you know it you have told him

[LatinaVivit]

Just don't beat around the bush I guess. Just get it over with.

[xxkxx]

If he is your best freind then he should, in theory, understand and appreciate u