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commikid
April 29th, 2012, 07:51 PM
I have known people to do this sort of thing and I find it a bit upsetting that people think that they have to do this to themselves but I can't understand why its done. I wish people wouldnt feel the need to do it but seen as there are people out there that do... why?? :/
catalyst
April 29th, 2012, 07:54 PM
It's hard to explain and different for everyone. I've self-harmed and personally, it was my outlet. I would get so depressed and angry at the world, I would have to take it out on something and I felt like I deserved the pain.

I think that's how it is for most people. But you're right, Com, it is upsetting and people don't have to do it. It's just hard to realize that when depression has you in it's evil little hands.
commikid
April 29th, 2012, 08:02 PM
It's hard to explain and different for everyone. I've self-harmed and personally, it was my outlet. I would get so depressed and angry at the world, I would have to take it out on something and I felt like I deserved the pain.

I think that's how it is for most people. But you're right, Com, it is upsetting and people don't have to do it. It's just hard to realize that when depression has you in it's evil little hands.
Hey there Catalyst well I have been really down at times too and when I was younger I did'nt really show an interest to anyone else or what their problems were but now I like to see behind peoples image to what they are really like, and as far as self harming goes its always confused me because everyone has a pluss side to them so its nice to find the people that are willing to share their problems to help fix them :D rather than resorting to harming themselves :/
Desuetude
April 29th, 2012, 08:05 PM
There is literally the exact same thread here (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=137139)
This tread about what triggers (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=137158) people may also help to achieve a better understanding.
commikid
April 29th, 2012, 08:11 PM
There is literally the exact same thread here (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=137139)
This tread about what triggers (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=137158) people may also help to achieve a better understanding.

Ahh thanks I'll have a read through it :),, I was just scanning them and did'nt come accross one so I decided to post. Thanks for the link.