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Saxophone 44
April 29th, 2012, 03:57 PM
I really like this girl that I've been talking to for a while now. Unfortunately, when we started talking, she started dating one of my close friends. I know that she liked me before him, and as I said, I really like her right now. She knows about my feelings, but as soon as I told her, I also said that I just want to be friends right now, and that her and my friend's relationship is more important to me than her and I. My best friend says that I should stop talking to her completely. I think that this is the wrong decision. I like her for all of the right reasons (for who she is), and I don't want to stop talking to her. I just want the best for her. I have no idea what to do: keep on talking to her as normal, completely stop, don't talk as much, etc. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
RCT109
April 29th, 2012, 04:25 PM
Well do you talk to her in a copious amount or is it like every other day?
Saxophone 44
April 29th, 2012, 04:43 PM
Usually every night.
catalyst
April 29th, 2012, 05:50 PM
Personally, I think you should cut back a bit. Not a ton, don't get me wrong, but she's with your friend. It's understandable that he may feel threatened by you. Be respectful to both him and her and take a step back. You don't have to cut off all communication, but keep barriers in mind.
Saxophone 44
April 29th, 2012, 05:59 PM
Thanks!
RCT109
April 29th, 2012, 08:45 PM
Yeah you should cut back if its every night trust me it can rune it for you if you dont

btw i love this
"Dating in middle school is like wiping before you shit... It just don't work."
where did you find it or did you come up with it
Saxophone 44
April 30th, 2012, 12:43 AM
I came up with it (I think?). I might have heard something a lot like it elsewhere, then just elaborated. Thanks!
Ranger
April 30th, 2012, 02:00 AM
Plenty of fish in the sea man. Don't stop talking to a friend even if you have feelings for her. While it might kill you usually those types of friends last a lot longer than you might think. I have a few friends that I wish I could have dated and did the exact same thing you did but now we just got closer than ever and I have no problems going to them about any issues that I have.