imnotcreative3
April 28th, 2012, 09:15 PM
So two months ago tomorrow my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer. She has had her surgery and just recently started chemotherapy. But thats not the problem...
For the past two years I have had a bestfriend named Catie. Her dad has/had cancer and I know that I can tell her anything and that she will always be there for me. Just yesterday we found out that we liked each other and I asked her out and she said yes. And dont get me wrong in normal circumstances I wouldnt have asked her out so soon but yesterday was the perfect time and we also know each other so well its really only taking our relationship up like one notch.
But the thing that I'm worried about is that she told her mom today and my mom and her mom are gonna see each other on Tuesday, and obviously her mom is gonna tell my mom. I want to tell my mom its just that since her chemo has started she has been really sick and staying in bed. I dont want to tell her and then cause her unncessary stress but I also dont want her finding out from someone else!
What do I do? Please help!
After the fact I also thought about whether or not I really need a girlfriend right now but I've been having a really tough time and I know that I can tell her anything so this probably will be a good thing!
For the past two years I have had a bestfriend named Catie. Her dad has/had cancer and I know that I can tell her anything and that she will always be there for me. Just yesterday we found out that we liked each other and I asked her out and she said yes. And dont get me wrong in normal circumstances I wouldnt have asked her out so soon but yesterday was the perfect time and we also know each other so well its really only taking our relationship up like one notch.
But the thing that I'm worried about is that she told her mom today and my mom and her mom are gonna see each other on Tuesday, and obviously her mom is gonna tell my mom. I want to tell my mom its just that since her chemo has started she has been really sick and staying in bed. I dont want to tell her and then cause her unncessary stress but I also dont want her finding out from someone else!
What do I do? Please help!
After the fact I also thought about whether or not I really need a girlfriend right now but I've been having a really tough time and I know that I can tell her anything so this probably will be a good thing!