I don't get gays (Read whole thread!)

[Web_dEmon]

Before you start yelling at me for being intolerant, I want people to read the whole thread. I have tried as hard as I can to understand gay people and their likes and disikes. But I just can't/don't understand. Just the thought of anal masturbation on guys disgusts me. It makes me want to throw up. I can't help it. Every time I see gay people, all I can imagine is dudes making out (yuck!) and anal probing and masturbation. I can't help it. I turn away from them, they disgust me and I am trying to change this. Please, I mean no offense to people who are gay, I just want to know if there is anything I can do to become more able to accept gay people.. I don't know what to do.

[Jhcx]

First of all i'l say is You have to Accept it.

You have to learn to accept it. Its the world we live in. I cant force you no one can, You as a human have to come to terms on your own. If you can throw genders out the window, and just see them as two bodies happy in each others company thats all you have to know. Dont be winding yourself up about their sex life unless your ready to jump into that bed and experience it. My Motto "Try Everything once in life, regret Nothing!" I've done most of that. Still have a life ahead of me.

I accept gays ive been in their shoes. But yet i still get freaked out when i see a couple in front of me. Im just not used to seeing it. Im brought up in this world were its male vs female. Guys hooking up with Girls. So to see two guys making out in front of me. makes me look like i have two heads. But i take no notice and just move on with my life. Fair enough i will admit i get fair fcukin jealous that they have someone and im still single lol.

You speak of masturbation. Im totally fcuking lost on this. Do you not masturbate? Its really no different to having a girl give you a hand job.
Just dont think about it. Just take it with a grain of salt and put it behind you. Unless its going to impact your life in a major way its nothing.

*No offence to anyone*

[Dimitri]

First of all i'l say is You have to Accept it.

You have to learn to accept it. Its the world we live in. I cant force you no one can, You as a human have to come to terms on your own.
*No offence to anyone*

By you saying that you are just as confused, if not more that the poster above you. You say that he has to accept it but then you also state that you cannot make him...hence he does not have to accept anything, we live in a world that is of FREE CHOICE...everyone is entitled to their own opinion just as long as they do not hurt each other or cause someone else harm.

Before you start yelling at me for being intolerant, I want people to read the whole thread. I have tried as hard as I can to understand gay people and their likes and disikes. But I just can't/don't understand. Just the thought of anal masturbation on guys disgusts me. It makes me want to throw up. I can't help it. Every time I see gay people, all I can imagine is dudes making out (yuck!) and anal probing and masturbation. I can't help it. I turn away from them, they disgust me and I am trying to change this. Please, I mean no offense to people who are gay, I just want to know if there is anything I can do to become more able to accept gay people.. I don't know what to do.

Bud, I was the same way while I was little. I told a gay boy he was going to hell...

But you know what, I am BISEXUAL and I HAVE a WONDERFUL boyfriend named Josh and he is the best thing that ever happened to me. I love him dearly.

You are uneasy and let me tell you, it might be because of how you were brought up. I would like to say that you can talk to me if you like, I am more than willing to chat but that is only if you are willing to do so.

[Mortal Coil]

Just accept that different people like different things. You like chocolate, another guy likes vanilla. You like fucking girls, and gays like other guys. Hang out around gay people more often and you'll see that you start to understand them a little better.

[Jhcx]

By you saying that you are just as confused, if not more that the poster above you. You say that he has to accept it but then you also state that you cannot make him...hence he does not have to accept anything, we live in a world that is of FREE CHOICE...everyone is entitled to their own opinion just as long as they do not hurt each other or cause someone else harm.


I was just giving what i really thought But then also giving how i feel and that you have to come to the terms of accepting in your own time weather it be tomorrow or 40 years from now or never. As in the way i was thinking, you have to accept that your not going to accept gays or that you are going to accept them. Either way an acceptance is going to be made at some stage in life.

[Stryker125]

When I went to McDonald's with my friends, there was always this one dude who ordered his Big Mac WITHOUT MAC SAUCE! It was disgusting. I couldn't fathom how anyone could enjoy a Big Mac without the delicious mac sauce...but then, I got over it. I realized that just because he doesn't like mac sauce, doesn't mean I have to stop getting it on my Big Mac.

Getting my point yet?

[Swagging god]

Speaking as a mainly heterosexual male and as someone who utterly despises anal probing and anal masturbation. I'm straight-but-curious anyway to help u out here in understanding homosexuals is they're are not much difference they find someone who cares n loves them for who they really are and understands them thats for sure! And it's a guy but they can still have the same relationship experiences if they so choose as heterosexuals. I'm glad I could take the chance to help u understand it's not the physical things in love that materials it's the emotional from the heart ~ Swagging god

[OregonStateDude]

It's more than just the sex. For example, a guy and a girl aren't shagging 24-7. So it's the same with two guys. BTW, I'm still an anal virgin.

And it's not just that. I like the way guys look. I like the way they act. I like the way they dress. The whole package of a guy excites me. Girls just don't give me that same excitement.

Many of us feel that we were born this way. So it's pointless to try to change. For example, I enjoy watching baseball and I can't stand auto racing. So if someone tried to force me to watch auto racing, I would be miserable. You can't fit a square peg into a round hole.

I don't feel that I look or act gay at all. My best friend was really surprised when I told him. Evidently I am doing something right. :)

[Short Circuit]

You cannot help who you fall in love with, be it same sex or opposite sex. While I accept this to be true, I am very uncomfortable watching same sex people kissing and making out, and always look away, both in real life and on TV. Then I think, would a same sex couple be uncomfortable watching opposite sexed couples kissing and making out? TBH, I dont know, as I have never asked that question to my gay friends, this is a big world we live in, and once you learn to accept that there are different people living in it, the sooner you will learn to accept that this will happen.

[Kaius]

Questions for both :arrow2: Teen Sexuality

[RCT109]

Its not that hard to accept pple I mean some of my best firends are gay

If you have a problem with that then Just try too see them as you would any other person
I mean thats all you can really do

[MemoriesLost]

I agree with most of these people; You should accept it.
No matter how much anal disgusts you, think for a minute.
If someone is gay, it does not mean the lllooovveee that stuff.
What if someone is gay because they are in love with another man?
It's just human nature for some.
Think of it that way c:
I know so many gays who NEVER have sex. YAY FOR THEM~♥
They are some of the nicest people I know, too.
Just try to branch out ^^

[Rayquaza]

We live in a world where there are many sexualities. My verdict is that you have to accept it. Find it creepy? So what. Stop imagining them kissing. How can you look at someone and know if they're gay or not huh? Anal masturbating is something they may do privately if they do it, it's non of your business. You need to stop closing yourself towards only heterosexuality. I can't believe you say that the thought of some things disgust you and then you say no offence to gays.


But you know what, I am BISEXUAL and I HAVE a WONDERFUL boyfriend named Josh and he is the best thing that ever happened to me. I love him dearly.

Bisexuality =/= Homosexuality. Here, he states with problem with gay people, not bisexuals.

[itsjustme9000]

acceptance is a powerful thing like everyone is telling you. when you see a gay couple just think of something else (but still listen to them) when you have to talk to them

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

Well I am bi, may be leaning towards gay. And I know two gay people in real life and they are some nice guys, possibly nicer than all of my straight friends. Also why when you think of gay people do you automatically imagine sexual things? Do you look at a girl and think that they get it on with themselves or other girls? I just think you need to start talking to more gays and bi's in real life and on here. It may change the way you think.

[Crescendo]

Heh. First guy I've ever met who's been disgusted, yet has really tried to accept it. It almost impresses me, really. But, in all honesty and truth, if thats how you feel, thats how you feel. For now. Once you have a close friend/ family member who's gay, either you'll think differently, or just have to support the crap outta 'em whether you like it or not. I know, I'm not much help, but it's really all I can say.

[Crescendo]

When I went to McDonald's with my friends, there was always this one dude who ordered his Big Mac WITHOUT MAC SAUCE! It was disgusting. I couldn't fathom how anyone could enjoy a Big Mac without the delicious mac sauce...but then, I got over it. I realized that just because he doesn't like mac sauce, doesn't mean I have to stop getting it on my Big Mac.

Getting my point yet?

This might just be the reason I got out of bed this morning. You, sir, have made my day with this post.

[Samuel.Compton]

Why do you only see guys making out and anal probing when you look at a gay couple? Its not just about sex ya know? its about liking each as more than friends.
When i see a straight couple i dont see them making out or men poking vagina. I just see two human beings.

[Fourth Dimension]

well all you can do is accept it lgbt people are the same as you just because we like the same gender or both doesnt make us any different we cant help it we have the same feelings as you we have the same emotions so it really shouldnt disgust you because its not its like and lgbt person saying a str8 guy making out with a girl is gross makes no sence maybe make some friends in the lgbt community it might help you better understand us we are no different than you