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NauniiNarcotic
April 27th, 2012, 04:08 PM
I am a bisexual teen, and all my friends have no problem with it and I am confident to tell my family about my sexuality...
The only one that knows is my step sister, and she flipped out... But she promised not to tell...
I was about to tell until my stupid father goes and starts talking about how homosexuality is bad... so now he is a homophobe, my mom gives me that "Oh its okay, I love you no matter what" Crap, but if i tell her she is bound to tell my dad and he will discrace me... My brother and other steps are baisically homophobic too.... so I am really stuck here....

Should I tell or not?
If so when?
Examples on how?

I would really appreciate a legit answer...:):what:

PerpetualMotionSquad
April 27th, 2012, 05:55 PM
Well you should definitely tell. But I would tell the when you leave home since your family are homophobic. Also bring sexuality up a lot more then they won't be as shocked when you come out

Biscuithead13
April 27th, 2012, 06:44 PM
I would hold off until you leave home. Then you can tell your brother and father, etc. I have to face the same fate myself, and am wondering what to do because I am bi possibly even gay, and I dont know what to do because I know my dad and some others in my family would not be ok with me :/

confused65
April 27th, 2012, 08:13 PM
i would tell them but wait cause it will probably shock them like so with your step-sister

Mortal Coil
April 27th, 2012, 08:42 PM
Tell, but, as everyone else said, wait until you leave home.

MemoriesLost
April 28th, 2012, 08:34 AM
I agree with everyone else, love.
Wait till you move out. You can come live with me and if they 'disgrace' you, I will stick a vacuum up the ass of whomever it is that does so ((Unless you dont want me to X3)).

Pink Floyd
April 28th, 2012, 10:39 AM
Don't tell them! Believe me it could go very wrong. Wait until you move out.

leafgreenangel
April 28th, 2012, 01:23 PM
I would wait until you move out. They seem like they have ol school stadards and thoughts. Just be happy you have a good support system with your friends